It seems I may no longer be welcome to return to Budapest.
Because of this article and all of the hysterical comments that are now contained within it. This post went viral on Facebook, and was latched on to by a large group of Hungarian people (mostly women) looking to make personal, senseless attacks on me. I think it’s worth sharing simply to see the reality of the world.
Notice the constant projection, shaming language, and personal attacks – all of course, with no logical arguments. There were some good constructive ones that I’ll post too, in all fairness.
You should definitely give the entire article a read (I’ve written far worse), but I can honestly say that these are the two “worst” things that I wrote in the entire article:
“The girls will appreciate money. Don’t cry and say they’re gold diggers. Sex revolves around money, and money revolves around sex. Deal with reality. Sometimes these countries are so poor that the average salary is $400 USD per month. It is not a big deal to pay for her $2 drink for you, so just do it. It’s appreciated by her.”
Find an excuse to get them back to your apartment, assuming you followed my advice from this post and found a good place at a reasonable price. They will be impressed because most of them live in broom closets, or with their parents.
Regular readers will be laughing themselves silly at this situation: “Those are the words that Kyle wrote that really got women up in arms?! Ha!!!”
Now in all fairness, I did find out that the Facebook group that linked to the article is some sort of “sex crimes” group, so I guess it may be hitting close to home for some. Certainly I am not trying to make a personal attack at women who have been raped, but their outrage is unnecessary.
So here we go.
Women Have Zero Emotional Control
I read this article in the morning and I still don’t know what to say. I am hesitating between considering you as an utter prick or just a sad loser. I am not at all surprised American women ignore you after what I’ve just seen here. You must have very low self-esteem to have to travel overseas to find some naive, vulnerable women who fall for the ‘Big American Mastah’. You are cheap and easy, not the girls! I don’t even hate you, I feel sorry for you. Have a life and grow up!
Kyle, you should find a good therapist, you have serious issues with your self-esteem and I am saying this with the utmost benevolence despite seeing all the dirt in this page. Going abroad to seduce naive, gullible girls will not help you to overcome those issues as first you will have to work on yourself in order to become attractive to your fellow countrywomen. You are lying to yourself, Kyle, but it does not entitle you to take revenge on inexperienced young girls. They might get seriously hurt, some Asian girls even commit suicide after ‘adventures’ like the ones you describe. And no, Kyle, this is not an ‘oops’ factor, you have responsibility. Financial or psychological superiority DOES NOT ENTITLE YOU to take advantage of young girls, even if they are not too intelligent. They are human beings with feelings and vulnerability, si stop this bullshit immediately. I hope you will find long term happiness with a nice woman. Try to overcome your hurts.
(Then she gives horrible advice to men – “BE NICE!!!”)