My girlfriend is pretty on board with the overall concepts of the red pill. Even prior to dating her seriously, many girls whom I would go on dates with would start to grasp the beginning concepts if I explained it to them in a way that women understand. If you simply ask whether they would prefer a man who dominates them, or one who asks for permission to kiss them – they know what the answer is, every damn time. When I phrased it exactly as above, a knowing smile would cross their lips.
Despite the fact that they feel the need to subscribe to the feminist bullshit, all girls still want a real man. They want a man who is desired by other women – because it shows that he is of high value. Think about it – a man is not just naturally born with the ability to get women, in most cases. Sure, some are born with natural self confidence in charm. But typically, a man needs to work on his body, his game, his speech – sometimes going as far as to needing to remake his entire self. For most young men, the path from pathetic dweeb to player is a road full of hardship.
Women then instinctively know that a man who is attractive to women, i.e. pre-selected, has gone through the path. It means that he most likely has his shit together. It means he has character and has worked hard. A man will never have the number of women he has slept with held against him, unless it is an extreme case of the girl being a super-religious, and still a virgin. And even then, it still may not matter. While my girlfriend claims to hate how many women I have slept with, she is still thrilled to be with me and certainly has no issue with our sex life.
However, most girls don’t understand why the opposite doesn’t ring true.
A man who fucks lots of girls is more attractive to girls – so a woman who takes a lot of cock MUST be the same!
Wrong.
All it takes is the sheer good fortune of being born female, and you have all the tools at your disposal to get a man into bed. Being a relatively attractive, feminine, and upbeat female will give you access to the greater majority of the male population. Is it enough to score rich millionaire celebrities? Maybe not. But even a male who has all of the qualities I’ve listed above isn’t nailing Victoria’s Secret models every night of the week. Generally speaking, women have more access to a higher percentage of the male population than vice versa.
Just don’t get fat, and you’ll be fine.
Women innately know they are desired by the opposite sex since their earliest years when they can make the boys do stupid things just because the boy wants to be around her. If she is objectively attractive enough, she will have been given attention, been chased, and never have gone without notice. She will know the power her sexuality commands and why the double standard exists in a world where men chase/women choose dynamic.
Only the hamster tells them that men must obviously live the same lived experience, for since they have never gone without.. they cannot imagine/relate/empathize with the alien proposition that perhaps most men aren’t sought after, chased or desired by women. Their solipsism wont allow for it. It has been their life experience to be sought after.. surely it must be the same for ALL men.
Well.. only for the men she desires, because if she desires him, chances are other women do too. And high demand/short supply means sellers market for the player. But back to the original point.
We don’t honor or celebrate people doing things that come easily or naturally. We celebrate and cheer for Olympians because they’ve worked their asses off for their entire life to become the best at what they do to compete against the best. When they win, it’s blood sweat and tears that earned it.
Women allowing men to have sex with them is the equivalent of normal breathing in terms of difficulty.
If one were to talk about men vs. women ability to attain sex from the opposite gender, the difficulty could be summed up in a race between a man and a woman crossing the finish line at the same time, only the woman easily walked over to the finish line while the man was forced to drag an anchor, going uphill, in an oxygen deprived environment, during a heat wave.
They both cross the finish line at the same time, yet the women is incensed that the crowd is giving all it’s praise to the man.
The deceased LaidNYC put it best, I think.
“A girl saying she can get sex is like me saying I can buy a girl dinner.”
“Just don’t get fat”, and you’ll be fine.
Indeed.
Compared with what we have to do, they only have one little thing to take care of. And increasingly, they can’t even do that!
Welcome to America 😉
I hit the roof whenever I hear ANY woman is having problems finding a man. Do these clowns have any idea how easy it is compared to how men have it? All they have to do is keep themselves looking good, something which a lot of them find hard to do.
There’s actually a tiny facet of this infinitely well-reasoned argument that I believe needs to be included… the fact that, once the hamster wheel seizes up and grinds to a halt, most women end up crumbling because their entire worldview has collapsed around them. They’ve been told their entire lives that “they can have it all,” that “your soul mate is out there,” that “he won’t REALLY care about your past if he loves you!” But the truth is far more devastating.
On the one hand you have a woman who innately believes that her one-true-love-who-has-Bill-Gates’s-money-Channing-Tatum’s-looks-John-Holmes’s-sex-drive-and-the-power-of-an-emperor is out there, sitting in a Parisian cafe idly stirring his espresso, sighing sadly because he cannot find “the ONE.” But she’s been told (by everyone, even her feminista friends) that when they meet he will instantly love her just for her, no conditions and no questions asked – so why should she actually EXERT herself and learn to be feminine, stay thin, be sweet, etc.?
The truth is far more cruel. Her ONE has no time to even think about her because he’s too busy living his life – pumping iron, jetting to exotic locations, making money and gaining power, and banging a series of 12s half his age. It’s the ultimate irony… the more successful a man is, the less he’s willing to settle. (I’m proof-positive of this dictum – no 12s yet, but someday…) High SMV men don’t need to worry about low SMV women because, in the immortal words of Barney Stinson, “Every day millions of girls turn twenty-one and, God help me Ted, I think they’re getting dumber.”
So what’s the point of this long-winded screed? It’s simply this… Don’t worry about your sex life and instead concentrate on becoming the best, most successful you you can possibly become. Or to put it another way – if you build yourself, the pussy will come. (Literally, in some cases.)
What is particularly maddening to me is the fact that if there WAS a guy like that, perfect for her in every way – what the hell would he be doing just idling around and being…ya know, SINGLE?
And yeah, you’ve hit the nail on the head. Be ripped, be a millionaire, and be well-traveled, and you won’t even need to seek pussy.
Great comment overall.
Thanks much, Trouble. Love the site, BTW! A must-read for me every day… and when there’s nothing new I check out the older stuff. Keep up the good work!
Thanks very much!
Women Are Attracted To Men Who Get Pussy, and Men Are Not Attracted To Women Who Get Dick.
I found just the opposite. In my younger years I found that women never liked me talking about other women or girlfriends. I found out, the more pussy I got the more I wanted, and I preferred slutty women …as I was never interested in them beyond sex. If I got them to fuck my friends, it turned me on even more. One girl I was dating every once in awhile..and always wanted to see more of me… jokingly said she fucked ten guys since she saw me last, and i was very turned on by it. If was true I don’t now if it was true, but I didn’t really care.
You have to be subtle about it.
This is 100% true. From my experience, women crave a man who they know other women find attractive. I noticed that when I am around women, other women look over at me. Not to toot my own horn but I am a relatively attractive man with good game. “Pussy attracts pussy.”
Nice post and spot on.
Well your woman is trying to be a psuedo male. Men are designed for multiple wives and concubines it’s even in the bible but women deteriate with each new sex partner and retain semen dna for life. Each mans dna transforms her to adapt to him but after 2+ men she loses that ability, becomes psuedo male and psychotic(oxytocin antipsychotic for women). Big difference. Women should be virgin wheb you find them if not they are polluted and not worth much. This confusion happens when biology is denied for political “correctness” and feminism takes over.