A commenter by the name of Mesmerick left a comment on my post about my little sister.Dude, I can understand your frame here but be open to the possibility that your being harsh on the guy. Under what circumstances would you be happy for your sister for any guy she was dating? Why does he have to tick your boxes to begin with? He’s doesn’t have to please you to be in a relationship with your little sis, he doesn’t have to be an awesome blokey-mcbloke whose got everything together at the ripe old age of 20 fresh out of home. He pushes her buttons and makes her happy, why does he need to concern himself with supplicating to her brother whose hundreds of miles away (and he doesn’t want to fuck). Not everyone has racked up the accomplishments you have at 22, use your lofty perch to to pause and reflect for a moment “There but for the grace of god go I.”Why denigrate a guy for not treating your deeply loved sister like pump and dump trash, and making the most of circumstance and proximity? From your posts she sounds like a cool girl, maybe it won’t last but really, meh. Don’t waste the hate, just keep on trucking.“Dude, I can understand your frame here but be open to the possibility that your being harsh on the guy.”Truthfully, the main problem is this, which was obviously missed:However, now these two are now LIVING TOGETHER next year, and they have now, perhaps inevitably, developed feelings for each other.“Under what circumstances would you be happy for your sister for any guy she was dating?”Moving on, of course I’m being very, very harsh on the guy. As long as she’s being treated well, and she is happy, then I will be happy for her. This is, of course, provided that circumstances like the above are not in play. I have no problem whatsoever with her dating, and I’ve never been the overprotective, hard-ass older brother.He doesn’t have to tick my boxes, but I’d be foolish not to judge his character. That is my job as an older brother, to look out for her. He doesn’t have to have my list of accomplishments, but for him to take advantage of her hardships to make a romantic move on him, how can I ignore those red flags?“why does he need to concern himself with supplicating to her brother whose hundreds of miles away (and he doesn’t want to fuck).”What the hell does fucking me have to do with it? This shows a very shallow base of knowledge for social dynamics. He doesn’t have to supplicate to me, but if he is a decent human, he should want my respect. Man to man respect, as well as a brother to my sister respect. Granted, he has no idea that I know all of this, but as of now, I have no respect for the kid.“Why denigrate a guy for not treating your deeply loved sister like pump and dump trash, and making the most of circumstance and proximity?”She’s smart enough not to become a cum receptacle for every fraternity bro. “Making the most of circumstance”? The fact that she’s heartbroken and needs support, and he’s using that to his advantage to try to get his dick wet?Mesmerick, I don’t want to make this an attack, but your rationalization hamster is spinning it’s little legs in it’s wheel right now.Stayed tune for more on this as it develops.