As a former Economics major, I like to think of everything in opportunity costs. I don’t consider myself an economist, per se, but I consider myself more capable than most of the Obama administration. Getting off topic, already…opportunity cost is what you must give up in order to achieve something. From good ‘ol Merriam-Webster:
In economic terms, the opportunities forgone in the choice of one expenditure over others. For a consumer with a fixed income, the opportunity cost of buying a new dishwasher might be the value of a vacation trip never taken or several suits of clothes unbought. The concept of opportunity cost allows economists to examine the relative monetary values of various goods and services.
Let’s apply opportunity cost to the female orgasm.
Some people subscribe to the belief that you must make her cum and cum again to get her to come back for more. Others say you should just fuck her like a wild animal and that the alpha-ness will be enough to bring her back again and again.
I tend to subscribe to the a middle-ground, equilibrium belief. If the opportunity cost of getting her to an orgasm isn’t large, I’ll do it. If it has a high opportunity and a low ROI (return on investment) I don’t bother.
Why do I subscribe to this mentality? Giving her an orgasm is no doubt a form of power that you can use to your advantage. It will keep her coming back for more and more sex if you know how to push her buttons in the right way. Men must realize though that the orgasm isn’t necessarily the end of all things for a woman with sex – it’s all about “the journey”. You can carpet munch all day and give her a dozen orgasms but you still must be the alpha in the bedroom.
Failure to lead and take charge to a certain extent will turn you into little more than her personal vibrator that doesn’t require replacing the batteries.
On the flip side, if you can’t make her orgasm, it’s better to go the alpha route and just fuck her good. NOTE: this is not an excuse to not know HOW to give an orgasm, but some girls have mental hang-ups that take some time to get past. They’re all capable of having one, deep down, but some require more work than others.
You must ask yourself what you’re giving up in trying to bring her to orgasm. Nothing is worse than searching around saying, “How about this?” like a teenage boy on the adventure of trying to find his first clit. Warm her up good and plow her like it’s the last fuck you have on this planet. Make her be submissive, rough her up a bit.
The below is what happens when you have a low opportunity cost of giving orgasms. This girl needed all of a minute of g-spot stimulation once I slipped my fingers inside of her before she would start squirting everywhere. Once she came down from that, she was capable of having another orgasm seconds afterwards. Quite the low opportunity cost – so naturally I took advantage of this because it’s low effort with a high return. By the time I had finished with the session below, she was incapable of walking on her own two feet.
Of course, I never think of the opportunity cost of having to wash and dry your sheets prior to sleeping.
That’s a trade off I’ll make any day of the week.