Embarrassing story to tell you this evening.
When I took my first trip to Barranquilla, Colombia, I met a pretty cool girl there. And by cool, I mean she was hot. She didn’t speak a lick of English. I don’t speak any of the espanol.
But, we went out a lot, had a lot of fun in ‘tween the sheets, and so on and so forth.
I wasn’t in love with her by any means, but this was my first experience spending significant time with a girl outside of America (i.e. more than a date or two), and…
Well, I was hooked.
So much so that I invited her to come visit me in Los Angeles.
And so much so that I even had her start the visa process.
Looking back, I don’t really know what got in to me. She was good-looking but not a model. She was nice but honestly, probably not all that intelligent. I wasn’t obsessing about her or anything of the sort like a slobbering dork.
In hindsight though, I think the reason why was because I was just so sick of dating girls in the States at that point.
I wanted her to come visit for a week or so just for a break from that.
I didn’t want to stick her on the K-1 visa and marry her within 90 days.
Or honestly, even go back to Barranquilla to see her.
I just wanted a respite.
Point’s this:
Dating is so much better and so much different abroad. If you haven’t done it, you likely can’t even begin to fathom what it’s like. And, if you’re sick of dating in the western world, tired of looking for a decent girl to have kids with, or even one who you can stand to talk to for more than a few minutes at a time…
Honestly?
I think you’re kidding yourself.
And I think you know it, too.
You know you want to take dating abroad for a test drive.
The question is…
Are we at the peak point?
Where men become truly fed up with the options in the west?
And if so, what comes next?
You tell me in the comments below.