Guess what, I’ve hit a new mark. I have enough mail that I can start posting a weekly column with emails from readers and my responses. This week’s comes from someone by the name of S.E.B. I don’t know if they’re a dude or a chick, but I’d guess chick. In any case, this email was actually very well thought out and thorough. As always, my comments are in bold. Thanks for reading the first Groupie Guest!
- Single male
- “Nice guys”
- Submissive female
- Above-average income
You will probably hate my blog if you fall in these categories:
- Married male and are pussywhipped (hint: most of you are)
- Alpha Female
“Facebook is killing your dating life”
– I agree, I’ve written about Facebook before, but more in regards to it killing your social life. I actually really liked this one because you back up your points with a little storytelling. That is effective. The posts where you talk about a problem and then give alternate solutions, I like. Lists-type posts win every time.
Side note: A lot of your dating rules are rules that I have for myself. And I agree about your views on marriage, American culture, and social media usage. I wouldn’t mind seeing more posts about social media and the negative vs. positive effects it has when trying to “sound” Alpha.
While I don’t want any of this, I also don’t have any desire to grow a pair of tits anytime soon.”
– I have a huge problem with this “Being female is a negative thing.” It is not bad. It is not disgusting. There are two genders you can be, you do not get to choose, and you do not make fun of one just because you are the other. I think what a lot of men don’t get is that being told “you’re a woman you’re a woman you’re a woman,” constantly is a lot like being told “you’re stupid you’re stupid you’re stupid” or “you’re worthless you’re worthless you’re worthless.” When is being compared to a woman ever said with a positive tone? It’s basically verbal abuse, bullying. It’s tiring to hear over and over in such a negative way.