When it comes to Latinas, Mexican girls are often neglected. Ask any man where the sexiest Latin women come from, and he will undoubtedly say “Colombia” or “Brazil.”
This is a guest post from my My Latin Life.
And, while there’s no denying that women from these countries are stunning, Mexican girls can definitely hold their own.
That, accompanied by the fact that it’s only a few hours flight from most major American cities, makes Mexico one of the best (and underrated) countries for men who are interested in Latinas.
With that in mind, here is our 10-step guide to banging Mexican girls. These simple tips should help you navigate the cultural barriers and have you sleeping with beautiful Mexican chicas in no time whatsoever.
If you want to bang high quality Mexican girls, you’re going to have to know some Spanish. The key phrase here being high quality; the truth is, you’ll still be able to hook-up with a “gringo-hunter” if the only word you know is “hola.” However, if you really want access to hotter Mexican women and to set yourself apart from other travelers, you are going to need to get the basics down.
Luckily for you, Spanish is one of the easiest languages for English speakers to learn. It would be wise to invest in a couple months of practice through a program like Rocket Spanish before you book that flight. Believe me, the return on investment will be worth it.
To generate the most leads possible to increase your chances of hooking up with Mexican girls, you absolutely must use online dating. Seriously. If you’re not already using some form of Internet dating website or app, it’s the single biggest change you can make to expand your options with Latinas.
In Mexico, the best dating sites by far are Mexican Cupid and Tinder.
Both sites offer an abundance of good-looking Latinas to choose from. Before you head south of the border, sign up for an account with each of them, make sure your photos are on point and start messaging the ones you like. You’ll be off to the races.
One of the best ways to ensure that you bang as many Mexican girls as possible is to remember to set up dates and build up some rapport with different girls before you get to the country. This is especially true if you only plan on being in Mexico for a short time. Talking to girls before you arrive and having a few options already at your disposal when you touch down will help combat flaking, and will give you a better idea of what girls to focus on so you don’t end up wasting time on false leads.
Fortunately, Mexican Cupid allows you to talk to girls in Mexico regardless of your geographic location. If you play it right, you can have a harem waiting for you upon your arrival!
Just like American girls, there are many different types of Mexican girls. It’s important to find out what kind you like, and what kind likes you. Believe me, this will save you a lot of effort.
For instance, if you like doing tequila shots with hipster girls and find that you can pick them up easier than, say, punk rocker girls, you are probably going to want to focus your attention on hipster bars and nightclubs rather than underground punk shows. When you arrive to a new city in Mexico, be sure to find out where the nightspots are where you’re likely to do the best with Mexican women.
That being said, don’t paint yourself into a corner! Just because you have failed to pick up posh girls in the past doesn’t mean you shouldn’t keep trying if that’s what you want.
True players can get with girls from all walks of life.
In order to sleep with Mexican girls in Mexico, it is best to have your own place.
This is for a few reasons.
First of all, the fact that you can afford to rent your own apartment is a signal of higher social value. Second of all, there are not many girls that are comfortable with being banged in a mixed dorm with 7 other people…and the ones that are, you don’t want anything to do with.
If you’re serious about meeting Mexican women, pony up a few more bucks and rent a hotel or an Airbnb.
One of the easiest ways to stand out to Mexican girls in a positive way is to dress well. Let’s just say that the bar for style is pretty low, among both locals and foreigners. For instance, your typical backpacker in Mexico will be dressed in cargo shorts and an ill-fitting graphic tee shirt.
The simple act of putting on a casual blazer and a decent pair of shoes will put you ahead of 95% of the male population.
When most men go abroad, they tend to pack their worst clothing – things that they wouldn’t lose sleep over if they forgot them in a hotel room. Don’t be one of these guys. Just because you’re in another country does not excuse you from looking like shit.
If a Mexican girl is going to sleep with you, she has to respect you as a man. In order for her to respect you as a man, you are going to have to be dominant.
What do I mean by dominant?
Basically, it boils down to confidence. Look her in the eye when you talk to her, stand up straight and be firm when it calls for it. On dates, dictate what you guys are going to do. Always be decisive. Keep in mind that being dominant is different than being aggressive. Guys in Mexico can be rather aggressive in bars and nightclubs, so mimicking that approach here isn’t going to work in your favor. Instead, take more of an indirect approach when pursuing Mexican women. But when it comes time to take her out on a date, show her who is in charge.
This extends to the bedroom as well.
If you want to start meeting Mexican women, click here.
Something you might not know:
There are some Mexican cities where it’s incredibly easy to get laid.
Not so much.
If you expect to be banging scores of Mexican girls in a small, traditional village in the state of Oaxaca, you have another thing coming; regardless of how strong your game is you’re not going to change the local culture. Likewise, there are cities in Mexico where it’s easy to sleep with the local women, but you’ll struggle endlessly to find ones that you’re actually attracted to.
In general, you will be better off in bigger cities.
For a first trip, Mexico City, Guadalajara and/or Monterrey are all good choices. There are also a number of hidden gems throughout the country where your exotic factor will be through the roof.
Those you’ll have to discover for yourself!
ABA: Always Be Approaching.
Mexican girls are intrigued by foreigners, and they love to get approached.
No need to be bashful here. Unlike in the United States or Western European countries, girls in Mexico will rarely – if ever – blow you off completely if you talk to them in the street, on the bus, in a shopping mall or even on the Internet. And if a girl is not interested, she’ll be very diplomatic about letting you know.
Think about it like this…
Worst-case scenario, she doesn’t give you her phone number.
Best-case scenario, she’s naked in your room later that night.
A fairly straightforward cost-benefit analysis.
Last but not least, keep your options open when it comes to Mexican women.
Use all the weapons in your arsenal:
Day game, night game, online dating, language exchanges etc.
In the same way it’s a bad idea to rely on just one income stream for your livelihood, it’s also a bad idea to rely on one stream for meeting sultry Latinas. Especially when there are so many lovely ones to choose from.
On that note, do your best not to get into a relationship with the first Mexican girl that you meet; they can be very convincing (although, it is worth mentioning that they make great girlfriends, if that’s what you are looking for).
I hope that by now you have an idea of how to bang Mexican girls. If you’re new to dating Latinas, Mexico is definitely the best country in Latin America to start:
If you’re a bit more experienced with Latinas but decided to forgo Mexico for Colombia, Peru or Brazil, I strongly recommend that you give the country a second look – the Mexican girls you see in the United States are in no way representative of what Mexican girls look like in Mexico. The latter is much, much better.
Best of luck!
PS: If you want to start meeting Mexican women, click here.
Updated October 2019
Kyle here again now. Honestly, as someone who has now been living abroad for nearly four years, and also helping other guys get here, I really can’t say enough good things for Mexico simply because of this reason:
It can get you that “taste” of foreign girls, what they’re about. Even if you don’t love Mexico and don’t love Mexican women, it will show you what else is out there in the world.
I can tell a guy who is unhappy with the American girls, living in Oklahoma, that he should get on a plane and check out Eastern Europe. But maybe he’s never been out of the country and is scared to do so. Telling him to fly around the world just isn’t the right thing to do. He’d be far better off taking a long weekend down to a place in Mexico and getting his feet wet.
I can’t think of a better jumping off point to get your first taste of dating abroad than Mexico and Mexican women.
The flights are plenty, they’re cheap, plenty of people speak English, and Mexican food is incredible. Not to mention, for those who haven’t traveled, nobody is going to balk at you or call you crazy for taking a trip to Mexico City.
They might think you as crazy if you decide to head straight to Moscow instead of Mexico..
So, if you are tired of dating in the Western world.
Do yourself a favor.
Head to Mexico.
Try it on.
Maybe you don’t love Latinas, but maybe you go on a date with a few Mexican chicas — and realize how different things can be in other parts of the world.
Get your first taste, and if it’s not for you, and you want to keep dating American girls, by all means, be my guest.
But, be warned…
Once you start, you can’t go back.