Cheating is generally bad, but if one person is gonna do it, it’s definitely better for it to be the man who crosses that line instead of the women.
Reason why is simple:
Generally speaking, women like a man who many women can get, and while a man likes an attractive woman, it has nothing to do with the fact that lots of men want her.
Again, reason why is simple:
Men have to earn their value in the world, women have to do their best not to destroy theirs (hard, in today’s world).
Hence, a man who has lots of options is likely a man who has built himself into something, or inherited it, so he has some resources and qualities that are universally attractive to a woman. More, since women are the ones that generally decide if and when sex is going to happen, it’s an actual accomplishment if a man sleeps with lots of girls. Whereas an attractive girl could quite literally just walk into a bar, say, “Who wants to bang me on the counter?”, and could easily have a line out the bar of men waiting for their turn.
Hence, if you cheat on a girl, there is going to be a very primal part of her that is turned on by it (even though she’s likely angry)…whereas if a girl cheats on you, you are probably just going to feel disgust.
There’s a reason for that, called…drum roll, please…cuckholding!
Raising another man’s kid is about the worst thing you can do from a biological perspective, hence, you are pretty much programmed to feel purty nasty about it.
Anyways, for the kick that might surprise you…
You know how I said she’ll be turned on, but still mad?
Watch her actions, not her words.
She’ll likely spew all sorts of venom at you, but there’s all sorts of other cues you could likely pick up on that show the more primal side of her (i.e. the side that is turned on).
Men are drawn to God-given assets in women.
Women assume everything is given and men assume everything must be earned.
Both sexes assume incorrectly that how their world operates is how it operates for the “other side”.
In reality, nothing could be less truthful.
Reason why is simple:
Women base their attraction off of success. Men off of looks.
So, what makes success?
A man who is successful has likely failed. He has faced adversity. He has overcome it. He has built himself into something. Perhaps he’s acquired resources. He is able to provide, able to make sound decisions, he has built himself up from nothing. And yes, I mean nothing — think about it, how many 18 year old men are actually attractive to most females?
Flip the coin:
A woman who is successful has done all the same things. But it doesn’t influence whether or not a man would want to have sex with her. At all. And, a cute 18 year old girl is desired by every man aged 18 to 80. She has not had to face adversity to be cute. She has not had to fail and build herself back up. All she’s had to do is not eat too many cupcakes.
Here’s what it means:
A man has to fight and toil for all of his “sex value”.
A woman has to do nothing but stay cute and not fugh it up.