Reader “Heather – western female” left a comment on the blog that just reminds me of how most “western females” just do. not. get. it.
“Wow…from an attractive, in-shape, successful, independent American female who is still looking for an American man who is actually a man and doesn’t want to disrespect me for being smart and successful but can also still be the man in the relationship. Seems to be impossible to find these days. So asshats like yourself make comments like foreign women are more attractive and fun. My guess is that most men who feel this way are insecure douchebags.”
You know, I honestly feel bad for women like this, I truly do.
She just doesn’t get “it”.
Read that first sentence.
- Devoid of femininity and humbleness.
- Pure arrogance.
- That’s what girls find attractive.
- Not men.
It’s the perfect example of a girl projecting what she likes on to men, thinking that men like the same thing, when in reality, nothing could actually be further from the truth as far as male and female dynamics…
Not to mention, the insane expectations…
I get it.
- Girls don’t want to date men who aren’t better than themselves.
- Just like guys don’t want to date below their league, as far as looks.
- But, there used to be an unwritten social contract between men and women that made all of this an even playing field.
What I mean is this…
Even if Heather is in-shape, attractive, and successful, she wouldn’t broadcast it to the world and demand a man on her level.
Or, to take the example further, you wouldn’t have your typical out-of-shape and nasty western girl demanding a six figures, six abs, and 6″+ ya-know-what.The social contract was breached a while ago, and there is absolutely zero equality in it.
To further illustrate this point…
I heard an interesting rumor recently that online dating apps are beginning to implement what they’re calling:
Not sure how it would work exactly, but I’m guessing it involves sending in a driver’s license or other official document that states your height.
The standards only seem to go one way in the dating scene.
Can you imagine if men asked that we put in a “Weight Verification” for women?
There would be riots in the streets with fat girls with their shirts off, flouncing everything we don’t want to see.
It would hilarious.
Nonetheless, the dating game isn’t fair. Never has been, never will be. However, in 2019 and in recent years, it’s especially against men. Then again…other than an inch or two, it doesn’t do you a whole lot of good to lie about your height anyway, does it? Not like you can hide that in person, yes, yes, there are inserts and high-heeled-esque boots, but you can’t keep your shoes on forever…
Whereas something like income, lying isn’t hard at all.
Anyways, this is just my way of saying that life ain’t fair, double standards exist, but really…
What can you do about it?
Listen to one of the latest podcast episodes to hear me breaking down game for beginners…just hit play below.
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