“Kyle, there’s no getting away from the fact that when you’re over 40 your perspective on life and love is different from when you’re in your 20s, but what is it really like to date in your fifth decade?”
I’m all of 27 years old, so I’m really not qualified to answer that.
I did find something interesting though, in a recent book I read…
Yes, I read his book that is about teaching women how to get a good man. Go ahead and get your judging looks out. In all honesty though, it was a pretty interesting read. I enjoyed it both from the perspective that it was very good advice for women, and it was intriguing to see a fellow writer take a totally different approach and write to women instead of men.
But, that’s not the whole point of this email.
The point is that there was something in there that really struck home with me. Mainly, that Roosh himself said he has managed to help many men and many women find long-term relationships in their life, but so far, it has eluded him, and that he’s also not sure it is ever going to happen for him.
And that ideally, he’d like for it to.
Plus have four little rugrats.
Look, I’m not going to sit here and claim that I understand everything, but it’s rare that many guys are willing to take an honest stance on this.
You see a lot of the old pickup guys become extremely jaded and bitter after a period of time, and they just keep going and going down the same road.
You can tell they aren’t happy but the game becomes an endless piece of validation.
You can always get a hotter and younger girl.
That’s a treadmill that is literally never going to end.
New people are born every day.
It was nice to see Roosh be able to write about that and admit it, because most won’t.
So, while Yours Troubly can’t comment on what it’s like to date in your 40s and 50s (or even 30s for that matter), all I can say is that there are people that have reflected and said, “Yeah, it’s not so easy and maybe it’s not what I want to do.”
As usually is the case, feel free to set fire to my advice.
Anyways, tomorrow’s the day.
I’ll be LIVE at 8pm EST for “The Girlfriend Blueprint”.
My webinar guy purposely put a slide full of ugly feminists right at the beginning and it makes me legit mad.
So, if you want to see me set fire to a bunch of feminists…
Tune in tomorrow.