Any player worth his salt knows that to get women, you have to take them on a roller coaster of emotions. Girls want to feel. It goes hand in hand with the whole “female intuition” mantra. Girls don’t make decisions in a logical, well-thought-out sense. They are in a situation, they feel however the fuck they feel, and then they react based off of that feeling.
And we want Hillary in office?
It’s easy enough to prove. Logically, women don’t want to be turned on by the badboy, but he makes her feel a certain way (turned on) through his actions. Therefore, her reaction (usually banging the shit out of him) goes very much against logical reasoning and is the victim of her emotional response, both in her brain and between her legs. On the flip side, the nice guy simply only promotes emotions such as comfort, which are positive, but don’t open the legs and allow access to pussy.
Nowadays, women get their highs and lows from multiple men. The alpha doesn’t text her back. Frustration. The beta offers to buy her dinner. Slight subconscious disgust followed by validation. The alpha texts her back a single word. Anger, but arousal. The beta pays for dinner. More validation. Alpha fucks her good. She’s high. Alpha dumps her. Sadness. Beta lets her cry on his shoulder. Comfort. This is by no means a guaranteed “two-guy” deal, either. There might be 3-4 betas in the picture feeding her this validation while the alpha fucks her. In today’s ever sputtering world of social media, this is what it has come to. With today’s women being dragged in multiple directions by multiple guys, she is literally riding a roller coaster anytime her smart phone is on.
BEEP! High. BEEP! Low. BEEP! Comfort. BEEP! Turned on.
This means that, more than ever, timing is every crucial to playing the seduction dance. You need to strike while the iron is hot (or just be alpha, that’s pretty much the cure for everything) and promote the good emotions within her. Guess what those emotions are. They are NOT: comfort, validation, or lows. You need to elicit the highs, arousals, and borderline frustration.
You must understand that the girl you’re texting goes on a crazy emotional roller coaster every single day. Filled with high speeds, drops, flips, and all sorts of other crazy shit. You need to be the crazy flips and drops. Don’t be the part where the ride ends and the roller coaster stops.
“You must understand that the girl you’re texting goes on a crazy emotional roller coaster every single day… You need to be the crazy flips and drops.”
This is great. You’re such a dick in most–I mean all–of your posts, but this wasn’t a painful read at all. Maybe I’m currently on the high you mentioned, but keep it up. No pun intended.
Why thank you!
The fact that you say I’m a dick…well, I know in female speak that means that you like me.
Look at you, getting all Freudian 😉
I’m going to try to delve more into Psych with my posts. It’s a good way to be analytical.
& thanks for the comment at ROK this morning. I almost wish I had gone a little more troll/douchebag with it to piss girls off.
I am strongly considering trying to troll Jezebel with that article to see if I can get some hate.
Please do! You should look up The Female Brain by Louann Brizendine. I know, I know–it’s written by a woman. I think it would be a good jumping off point for you though, and it’s a quick read.
On your ROK post? You just keep writing about things I get feisty over. I honestly think it was more productive since you were less of a douchebag than usual, but I’m sure you’ll still get the hate you’re looking for. Troll Jezebel. Now.
I’m sure I will continue to write on your “feisty” topics. I have a lot of good ideas and am just itching for every Friday to come around. I wish I could get some more people over here commenting, so it would make it more worthwhile to run some of the really good stuff here.
You debate and articulate well though, so I’m happy to have you around for now 😉
Wow…..it never amazes me. Sad, sad, young boy.
Yep, the anonymous female is so much better.
What never amazes you, female?
Good girl. And we all love that you loved it, gracie.
See, “female”? Don’t be a sour puss. “grace9303” is one of your people and she enjoyed the article. So what’s your boggle?
Outstanding!
Gracie, I’ve read that book. It pains me to give a woman credit for anything that’s ‘better than okay’. It is a good book.
But… I’ll do you one better than that. “Speak Fluent Man” by Von DeCarlo.