Ahh, harem girls. Every man’s dream. To be able to date multiple beautiful women and live a free life.
But it seems like such a hard step. Because first you have to find those girls, and then keep them. Most men have enough problems with just one of those issues.
I’m here to change that.
Having a harem of girls does not have to be a difficult, elusive club. In fact, it’s easier than ever. Here’s how.
How to Find and Screen for Harem Girls
STEP 1: SURVEY YOUR ENVIRONMENT
While we like to think that all women are similar, and the same concepts of Game are universal…that’s not always the case.
Let me explain. If you wanted to find a harem of girls, who were okay with being harem girls–what kind of girl would you want?
Probably a more adventurous type of girl, who isn’t looking to settle down.
Would you want a girl who was a virgin and follows the word of God to a T?
So now that you know that: if you’re looking for harem girls, would you be best served to look for them at a club…or at a church? The answer should be pretty obvious. If it’s not…well, close this article. This isn’t for you.
When I say to survey your environment I mean to look and see what kind of girls are currently available to you. Are you a guy with a large social circle (hint: college campuses are prime spots to find harem girls)? Do you have bars or clubs in your area on lock?
Or are you the guy spending Saturday nights at church? (Not trying to hate on church, but I am trying to illustrate a point in very black-and-white).
Play to your strengths.
If you have an environment like a college campus, start looking for the craziest party girls in that social circle. Those are the girls who want to just live life. This means they also need and want dick (all girls do in this regards), but without the hassle. This makes them perfect Tier 3 or 2 girls (meaning you fuck and do casual stuff, but don’t become an exclusive item).
STEP #2: SCREEN HAREM GIRLS. HARD.
This is actually incredibly easy…but too many guys fuck this up.
It’s really, really simple.
You ask the right questions.
It’s as simple as, “What do you want to accomplish in your life?”
If she responds by saying she wants to be married with a family within the next three years–she’s not a candidate to be in your harem. Sure, she might be down for a good romp, and maybe temporarily will be in your harem–but eventually, you’ll likely lose her as she looks for something more serious.
However, if her answer is that she wants to travel around, “find herself”, and doesn’t want to settle down anytime soon–guess what? JACKPOT.
STEP #3: IMPLEMENT YOUR PLAN, AND SEE HOW SHE REACTS
Simply put, you must have the right mindset when it comes to running your harem.
This means that when she wants commitment right off the bat, you don’t budge. That you are able to keep yourself living the life that you want–free.
If she’s not down–NEXT. On to the next one. No one said that building a harem of girls wouldn’t require you to lose a few along the way.
But if you develop the confidence to let these girls walk, there are no limits to what you can do with Game. The sky is the limit.
If you want to unlock all of the skills to develop a harem, check out The Harem Handbook here.