Last updated: June 24, 2014

Where To Go To Get Laid In San Diego



A reader wrote me:

Hey Kyle I’ve been reading your blog for quite some time now that I’ve moved to San Diego with my family. I’m 17. I’ve never had a problem getting laid in <redacted, big US city> (where I am originally from), but since I’ve gotten here I haven’t gotten a bang yet (I’ve been here 5 months). I have approach anxiety but I still approach, it’s just that I haven’t seen any girls I want to approach. Could you give me a few places were I find hot girls in San Diego ? Thanks

PS- I live by <redacted> should I look around there ? Or should I go closer to the coast?

My response:

Hey dude,

Thanks for the message. I’m really not sure how much I can help considering I had very limited sexual experience until I was old enough to drink. I never went out and gamed when I was in the 17-18 year old range. If you were over 21, I’d tell you to go get my book (

I think your first step is going to be to simply admit that you are being a little chicken. No girls you want to approach? In San Diego? I find that kind of hard to believe, so maybe it’s time to just man up a bit. Not trying to be harsh, just trying to see it from an outside perspective.

<redacted> is shit. I lived there for six months. You won’t find much there, you’ll need to head more into the metropolitan San Diego area, or yes, the beach or coast.

-Fashion Valley mall, Mission Valley too but not as good
-Beaches, as a 21 year old I’d be inclined to hit PB and OB but you might have luck with Mission Beach.
-School, if it’s a possibility at all. If you go to a school with a bunch of ugly hags, you’re just SOL.
-If you’re feeling gutsy, hit up the colleges. I’d probably only recommend this if you look older than 17 and are willing to fib about your age. Most girls at that age aren’t going to be okay with a 17 year old.
-How close are you to 18? As soon as you turn 18, I’d recommend trying out OKCupid and Tinder. It doesn’t make up for not approaching, but it’s a good way to build prospects quickly.

I hope this helps! Let me know if you have any questions.


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  1. all this shit is nonsense.

    Here is my guide to get laid in SD:
    1. Acquire passport
    2. Go to Tijuana by walking across border
    3. Take $5 taxi cab ride to Hong Kong Bar or Adelitas Bar
    4. Acquire hooker who will be hotter than any girl you will pull in SD for less than $70
    5. ????
    6. Profit

    F San Diego waste of time to pull random girls. Best bet is to pull girls through social events such as meetups, church, and through other friends.

    if you want to get laid the above is the best advice. All women are whores so don’t act like you are morally above anyone.

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