Go Get More Dates #3
Welcome to lesson 3 of Go Get More Dates.
In this lesson, I’m going to show you a real world case study following the principles I’m teaching in this course.
At the beginning of 2017, I took on a new student.
He worked a stressful job, with no time to go approach girls on the street (running a giant corporation will do that to ya). He really needed a way to just get on some dates and get some reps in.
He sent me some of his previous online interactions, and I noticed a common thing with ALL of them…
He was hitting a The Wall at a specific point, every single time in his interactions.
He got stuck and couldn’t figure out when the right time to ask for a date was. In fact, it was disturbing how many long conversations he had but he DIDN’T EVEN TRY TO ASK HER OUT.
Once I started working with him, I put him on a single, logical goal.
= Every text he sent needed to somehow lead towards getting her number and/or asking her on a date.
What do you think happened next?
He got past The Wall!
Over the next few months, his interactions went from an endless cycle of getting nowhere to this:
All from doing one thing…
EVERY MESSAGE HAD A GOAL OF MOVING HER TOWARDS A DATE.
Now, every time this student gets a phone number in person, or gets a match online, all he has to do is follow his general mission of moving towards getting her out.
No long, drawn-out conversations where he gets sucked into an endless cycle of 100s of messages or texts.
No games from her.
Just a date.
THAT is the power of working towards a goal with your text/online game and having the GUTS to go through with it.
So how do you start?
Here’s the catch – most advice will tell you to use a specific opener or close…every single time.
“Open with ABC opener”
“Spike her emotions and DHV yourself”
“Go for the n-close by using XYZ close!!!”
Yawn. Bunch of nerdy talk, IMO.
You need to have the freedom adjust this, because one size does not fit all.
While all girls respond to game, each interaction has it’s own twist. If you’re incapable of thinking on your toes…you’re going to be in trouble.
So I’m going to give you one strategy you can use to fix that problem.
It’s a simple strategy I used to keep my students on-task and working towards the ultimate goal – getting more dates.
And tomorrow, I’m going to give you those step-by-step instructions.
Question #1: What are 5 things in life you are PASSIONATE about?
Question #2: What are 5 things you look for in a girl?
Write these 2 questions down.
Feel free to hit reply to this email and send them to me if you’d like to really be held accountable.
Don’t overthink – this is meant to be basic and fun.
Set a timer for 10 minutes, and jot down the first things that come to your head.
Talk to you tomorrow.
In the next lesson, you’ll use the research you do today and learn how to apply it to your own interactions…to get girls out.
Here’s a recap of the class so far:
Lesson 1 – The very first step towards succeeding with girls
Lesson 2 – The one thing you absolutely CANNOT do
Lesson 3 – Behind the scene of a man getting dates
Lesson 4 – My #1 tip to intrigue girls + get them responding
Lesson 5 – The perfect text interaction
Lesson 6 – The answers you’ve always wanted