Here are some good first ideas I had success with back in the day.
- A shitty dive bar
- A shitty dive bar
- A shitty dive bar
That’s all you need. This post is purposely short because it’s really that easy. Don’t complicate things. Anything else is trying too hard
And really, why should you?
Co-signed. It’s actually a great way to get her to qualify herself. “You don’t seem like the kind of girl who likes dive bars”. “You seem high maintenance, how can I know you like to have fun?”
Obviously tailor it to the situation, and don’t say it mechanically like a PUA, but the general gist is to frame it as your own “shit test”.
I’ve been taking girls exclusively to dive bars for first dates for months now.
‘atta boy. Plus…cheap!