I’ll say this to start things off—it’s definitely not a walk in the park. There are a lot of factors that can make things challenging when it comes to dating in Berlin.
This doesn’t mean you won’t find any success.
And this ultimate guide to Berlin girls will show you how to game women here in Berlin.
Obviously, I do not want to give away too much this early…
Which is why I implore you to read on further if you want to make your stay here in Berlin worthwhile when it comes to dating in Germany’s capital city.
Berlin City Guide: Logistics
This is important to discuss before we talk about Berlin girls.
There are many different areas in Berlin that each carry their own kind of “vibe” to it. Trust me, you want to pick the correct location.
Of course, when it comes to the location with the most upscale vibe – it has to be Mitte.
If you want more of an alternative and/or artistic vibe, you definitely need to head to Friedrichshain.
One thing that’s so good about Berlin though is the public transportation system. You should have no trouble going about the different neighborhoods here if that is what you want to do. And that’s whether you take Berlin’s trams, train or buses.
- You can read more about Berlin’s transit here on their official website.
Makes it easier to date Berlin girls I guess, right?
With that, here are the areas where you would find the most people— both locals and foreigners alike.
Let’s go ahead and start with:
There are plenty of good reasons as to why Mitte is your best bet for finding Berlin girls Not only that, but because Mitte is the center of Berlin, chances are you’’ll also be able to find a lot of tourists. While I realize you’re probably not in Berlin to date tourists, do remember that girls on vacation often “just want to have fun”…
Sometimes, they’re worth pursuing.
There are a lot of things that you can do in Mitte.
This is because this is where you will find the majority of the most famous attractions in Berlin.
In Mitte you will find a lot of cafes, restaurants and bars as well. This makes it ideal for both daygame, as well as finding date spots when you’ve ready for a 1-on-1 with a Berlin woman.
Mitte is also quite good in terms of its nightlife. With a wide range of bars you would be able to go to, you’ll surely have a good time and get a chance to meet a lot of local girls and foreigners alike.
Since Mitte is at the heart of Berlin, expect it to be the most expensive area in the city. That said, probably the best thing about it is that it gives you easy access to the other neighboring areas of Berlin.
When it comes to staying in Berlin, Mitte would definitely be at the top of my recommendations. And also we have Charlottenburg, which we will be discussing more below.
Friedrichshain is one of those up and coming areas in Berlin, and has been the last five to ten years. And, like I mentioned above, this area has a more alternative and artistic vibe to it that you might like.
The thing that stands out about this district is that it is home to many underground clubs. With this in mind, you will find that the number of tourists here are higher in the summer and spring months.
Another good thing about Friedrichshain is that when you compare it with the other big areas of Berlin, it is definitely cheaper—and it’s not even close. Well, that’s why it gives off a hipster vibe in the first place.
Friedrichshain is close to the Berlin Wall, East Side Gallery and the Spree River. This means that this area offers a lot of opportunities for you to pick up Berlin girls and tourists alike.
Think Mitte, but cheaper.
You will find a lot of great apartments here. This district also carries more of a young adult/professional kind of feel to it.
When you talk about decent bars and cafes this is definitely the place. And when I say decent, I mean it is less hipster when you compare it to, say, Friedrichshain.
What stands out here is that it has many great apartments that you can stay at. If you do not want to stay in Mitte because it is “too big” of an area for you, you have Prenzlauerberg as an option. And, like I said it’s definitely for a slightly cheaper price.
What you should take note of that’s lacking here is the nightlife. It will be hard to get Berlin girls. You will likely have to travel via taxi or public transit to more nightlife-centric areas.
Here you will find Europe’s second largest department store, the “The Kaufhaus des Westens”.
Charlottenburg is home to a wide range of shopping streets. You’ll find a variety of different stores, you can shop for yourself, and of course, a place with lots of shopping is also ideal for daygame.
The one thing that you can definitely maximize here is your daygame approach. You’ll come to realize how packed the streets of Charlottenburg is during the week. And even more so in the weekends.
This place has a lot of fancy cars, restaurants bars and clubs that you can choose from. And when I say fancy, I mean that it is the perhaps the best that you can find in all of Berlin. It is important to note that there are a lot of Russians here in Charlottenburg.
So don’t be surprised if you stumble across some Russian girls here.
Kreuzberg has a similar feel to Friedrichshain.
Note, in Kreuzberg you will find a lot of Turkish Germans.
Just like how with Friedrichshain, Kreuzberg also offers a lot of bars and clubs for you to choose from. So this is definitely a place you should consider if nightgame is your poison of choice.
Where Can You Find Quality Berlin Girls?
Let’s start things off by setting proper expectations here.
When it comes to the girls that you will meet in Berlin, to be honest they may not be that great. I am talking about the locals.
A lot of it has to do with the rise of feminism in Germany (and you know how I’m not that much of a fan of that movement). Not only that,but the past couple of years more and more people here seem to have adapted the “hipster” culture.
What this means, is that there are a ton of girls you would find here with shaved heads soft bodies, And…that’s not to mention the “bonus” tattoos and piercings you will find on them as well.
Here’s the thing, this is what you will mostly find in the bigger areas like Mitte and Charlottenburg. Heck, you can also even throw Prenzlauerberg in the mix as well. It is important to note though that this excludes the tourists, of course.
Tourists In Berlin
When it comes to the tourists in Berlin, you’ll get a mix. You’ll probably have some fat American girls, some socially awkward Asian tour groups, neighboring Western Europeans, and of course, the far-Eastern European girls on a holiday…
That being said, I’m not trying to say that Berlin is that bad, really.
But, for the sake of making things easier for you, let me give to you a few suggestions. If you want to get the high quality girls Berlin has to offer, you can start by heading to the upscale clubs and bars.
If you’re not that much into the nightlife, you can always go for day game as well. And as I have mentioned above, the best places for that would be Mitte and Charlottenburg. Prenzlauerberg can also be a good place to start for day game as well.
At the end of the day it all depends on your logistics.
Berlin Girls Can Be A Bit Cold
German women in general have their tendencies to come off as a bit cold. So we are not just singling out the Berlin girls here, because this goes for all of Germany.
Trying to meet strangers on the street is not a very common occurrence in Germany. So don’t take it personally when a girl rejects you here. You are not the only guy who’s experienced it. Just don’t expect German girls to smile and seem as if they’re excited to meet you and all.
In many cases it is best to just approach a girl in a direct way. This is true anywhere in the world.
You know, make your intentions known right off the bat. They appreciate the guts.
When it comes to the “exotic” factor, don’t expect much in Berlin either. Because they have a lot of foreigners from all over the world, all the time.
Overall, even once you’ve approached one of them Berlin girls it is pretty hard to tell if they are interested in you or not, even out on a date. But if it has been hours and the conversation is still flowing, there is a good chance that she’s into you! So yeah, it’s best to keep that in mind.
Daygame In Berlin
Obviously, if you want to do daygame, your best bet is going to be the bigger areas like Mitte Charlottenburg, and Prenzlauerberg. Due to the cafes, restauraunts, bars, and shopping, all are ideal for daygame, and I’d say that’s with Mitte leading the pack on that one.
And, just to throw in a little bit of a statistic for you…
Although we say here that Friedrichshain is more known for its nightlife, it is interesting to note that they do have the most foot traffic. So that is an option that you can explore as well.
Both Friedrichshain and Kreuzberg are very laid back places and if those are the kind of women that you want to meet, then why not do some daygame in these areas as well. Even if they are, again, more known for their nightlife.
Because German girls can come off as generally cold, if you’re out of luck with them you can always try to approach foreigners instead. Obviously it would be more ideal to get one of the Berlin girls, and check them off your list.
…but tourists aren’t a bad bet in many cases.
Below are a list of tourist attractions in Berlin that you can go to
- Brandenburger Tor
- Museum Island
- Berlin Wall & East Side Gallery
- Berliner Dom
- Unter den Linden and Friedrichstraße
- Wannsee & Potsdam (Day-Trip)
- Treptower Park
The Bradenburger Tor is definitely the number one attraction that people know Berlin for. But the Reichstag Building does come in a close second though.
Here’s the thing, during the summer is where a lot of foreign girls from all over the world flock to Germany and specifically Berlin. And we all know that girls on a vacation are definitely looking to have a good time especially when they’re in a place where little to no people recognize them. So keep that in mind when you daygame in Berlin.
Berlin Nightlife & Nightgame
When it comes to picking up Berlin girls using night game, there are two kinds of venues that you should take note of. One would be the underground clubs. And then the other one be the upscale venues.
Here’s the thing that you need to remember when going to the clubs:
Whether you are headed to an underground club or an upscale one, it is highly important that you dress the part.
Face control does happen in these places.
Also, try to pick and choose who you are going with. Chances are if you are going there with 3 or more people and you’re all guys? Good luck with your chances of getting in. Because they are very very slim if that’s the case.
Berlin Underground Clubs
Here are the list of night clubs (the best of the best for that matter) that you should definitely check out when you’re planning to do night game in Berlin:
These four are the prominent underground clubs in Berlin. There are quite a handful of others that deserve special mention and we will get to that below.
Upscale Berlin Clubs
Now let’s explore the more upscale venues that you need to take note of here:
- Prince Charles
- Chesire Cat
Below are a handful of honorable mentions that you shouldn’t sleep on as well, and you should definitely give a go when you have a lot more time to spare in Berlin. Take note, I have also added a handful of bars here. Enjoy!
- Ritter Butzke
- Sharlie Cheen
- Soda Club
- Cafe Luzia
Online Dating & Berlin Women
A lot has definitely changed over the years as far as online dating goes. These days it is fairly easy for one to find the girl of his dreams with just a push of a button. Sounds cliché, but that is definitely true.
The thing about online dating is that it allows you to choose right off the bat. Just look into a girl’s profile, find out what she likes and see if it matches with yours. If it does then go ahead, give it go.
The only con that I can think about here is that it is so easy to fake online profiles that in the end you may not end up getting what you’ve asked for and what not.
The positive side to this is, as long as who you’re meeting is not a serial killer (too dark?), if you don’t like her then you can just rinse and repeat until you’re able to find that ideal woman for you.
Sadly, this is not really the way to go when it comes to meeting Berlin girls.
When it comes to online dating in Berlin, for the most part you could consider it a bust. Because in most cases it is just a waste of time.
And this is not me saying that you will never find a quality girl through online game. It’s just that it takes a lot of time and effort. Which of course does not work well for a lot of you who are just staying in Berlin for a short period of time.
If you want to play the numbers game, the chances of you hooking up with someone is better when you do daygame and/or night game here in Berlin, as opposed to trying to find your girl online.
In any case, if you really are persistent in going the online route in meeting Berlin girls, there are a few sites that I can recommend you try:
EuroDate and International Cupid are very popular here as well.
But like I said, for the most part this will really take time and effort for you. And no, this is not me discouraging you at all. Just talking straight facts.
Final Thoughts On Dating In Berlin
Finding and dating Berlin girls is definitely not a cake walk. But that doesn’t mean that it’s not doable or worth a try.
As long as you are able to take note of the important aspects of this guide, we’re pretty sure that you’re going to be alright. Not only that but you will definitely experience some success as far as dating both local and foreign girls alike here!