Borja knows his shit, as evidenced by his crazy-good guest post about Lithuanian girls.
Just last Sunday I had this happen to me – with no other than an ex harem member who I was planning on welcoming back after she spent a year working abroad.
I showed her my new flat and I naturally grabbed her nice ass and pulled her towards me. She didn’t react negatively but was stiff and told me she couldn’t just act like a year hadn’t gone by: that I’d been meeting many girls and she was confused about a guy she’d met abroad etc.
Of course, I stopped escalating and finished my coffee in the living room with her while I sent a couple whatsapp texts.
A few minutes later she dropped the question (seems inevitable doesn’t it?):
– I hope you’re not mad? You must understand.
– Of course not! (big grin on my face which threw her off)
– Oh, why not?
– I understand and it’s your decision so I’m not mad. Also, there’s a girl coming in 20 minutes so we should get going I’ll walk you to the metro.
– (Stunned) Oh…I thought we were going to spend some more time together.
– Sure, but I happen to be really horny today and you’re not on board – so when you stop being confused you let me know yeh? (wink).
Just like that, I walked her to the metro and waited for my other girl to arrive. Then fucked her brains out.
So the answer to ‘What to do when a girl doesn’t want to have sex with you?’
Have more options.
Having a harem is simply the best way to run your life.