Well, not before she found my blog first. Whoops. Note to self: never challenge a girl whether or not she can find something on the Internet. You will likely lose. Girls are cunning. It doesn’t help when you’ve accidentally forgotten to unlink your Twitter handle (with your real name) to your blog.
Anyway, she found my blog (hey, babe!) and eventually I convinced her to let me see hers after she told me she wrote about me. I’ll keep her blog link to myself for her privacy, but I am going to discuss what she wrote, which is…
I’ve been talking to a guy for the past two months and I can’t even decide why I’m into him. We don’t share the same faith, he seems to have no want or need for commitment which kind of freaks me out, and I’m constantly questioning if he actually likes me. I’ve always wanted to be the kind of girl that’s set apart from the rest, but now I’m starting to think my efforts aren’t doing me any good. I’m on a road and I can’t see the end of it. I’m going into this blindly and not knowing whether the outcome will be good or bad. It’s not easy.
Now, the breakdown:
I’ve been talking to a guy for the past two months and I can’t even decide why I’m into him.
This is something that I didn’t understand for such a long time. Girls don’t want to know everything about you. They want fun, mystery, etc. Perfect example is when, like above, she can’t figure out why I’m into her. Am I nice to her? Sometimes. Am I a total dick at others? Yep. So it’s not because I’m nice. Is it because I turn her on? Well, a girl would never admit that to herself.
She’s into me because she can’t decide why she’s into me.
We don’t share the same faith
Faith is one of the most overrated things for compatibility in a relationship. You’ve got her, the good Christian girl, and then me, who routinely makes jokes about what a bastard “God” is and generally takes an agnostic approach to religion.
What girl really wants a boring Christian guy who doesn’t make her panties wet? Religion is a myth. It’s all about biological urges, and those override the prods of theoretical high powers.
he seems to have no want or need for commitment which kind of freaks me out
Because most guys are clamoring for commitment and all too willing to give up the variety of single life and fresh kitty. She reads this blog and knows I have options. A girl loves a man who could cheat, if they were together.
I’m constantly questioning if he actually likes me
I’m going to direct this directly at her because I know she’ll read it.
You should be. You should always bring your best effort with me. Anything less is not acceptable.
I’ve always wanted to be the kind of girl that’s set apart from the rest, but now I’m starting to think my efforts aren’t doing me any good.
See, this is the kind of cute, naiveness, and insecurity that guys actually like. Enough of this bullshit playing hard to get and head games that girls put up. Being a little vulnerable is cute.
I’m going into this blindly and not knowing whether the outcome will be good or bad. It’s not easy.
But it’s exciting; and that’s catnip for the kitty.