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This guest post on Dominican women is by my friend who has spent significant time there. Cheers and enjoy.

You can’t get that hot Dominican girl you saw in NYC out of your head. Now you probably think those types of girls grow on trees alongside the coconuts in the Caribbean.

Azure-blue water, white sand, tanned beauties with hourglass figures. Sounds like paradise, right?

It can be. I’ve lived in the DR (Dominican Republic) for over 15 months so I can tell you from experience that, as with everything in life, the good comes with the bad.

In this article, I’ll give you the lowdown on Dominican girls and what you can do to enjoy the women down there without losing your mind.

DOMINICAN WOMEN

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PHYSICAL TRAITS

Dominican women are famous for their curves. If you are from the U.S. you probably think that only black women have dat ass.

In the DR, there are plenty of girls that wouldn’t look out of place at a Hip Hop party in Atlanta. Curiously, most white Dominican women will have abundant thickness as well (in the right places) The mix of genes on the island has produced white girls with onion booties that STOP traffic.

Also, if there is a country in the world where the women have bigger natural tits, I’d like to know about it.

Big curves are celebrated in the DR; women here wear tight clothes to show off their voluptuous bodies rather than hide them.

The only Dominican girls who have zero curves are those who are 100% white. I’m talking elite families who emigrated from Spain centuries ago and have stuck to their own ever since.

As you can probably guess by now, skin color will vary across the economic scale as well as by region. The darker the girl, the poorer she will be. This is especially true in the capital Santo Domingo. However in other parts of the island (such as Santiago and the Cibao region) people will have caucasian features regardless of class.

If you don’t have a sickness for the thickness like I do and you care about girls’ faces, let me tell you that Dominicans girls don’t have pretty faces like most Colombianas do.

If you want to get an idea of what Dominican women look like, check out this site.

PERSONALITIES

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In general, Dominican girls are outgoing, assertive and social.

They can be aggressive and if they like you, you’ll know about it.

But don’t get excited if they call you “amor” “querido” “lindo” “corazon“. People in Latin American countries, especially in the Caribbean, are very affectionate and these words are so overused that they are meaningless.

MONEY REQUESTS

Gold digging is on a different level in the DR—it’s an art form.

The really pretty Dominican girls never work but they still live great lifestyles – work it out for yourself. It’s not unheard of for a 9 to have 2-3 different guys funding her lifestyle – apartment, gym membership, plastic surgery, trips to resorts, etc.

What is the definition of “girl game”?

Answer: To secure commitment and extract resources out of as many men as possible – in that case, Dominican girls have insane girl game. It’s part of the culture. The women have nothing so they only way they’ve ever gotten anything since they were little girls was by manipulating men.

The line between pro and semi pro is razor thin in the Dominican Republic and many girls vehemently deny that they are prostitutes but will still ask for money.

I tell every guy who contacts me to ask advice about girls in the Dominican Republic:

It’s not a case of if you will get asked for money, it’s how soon and how much.

You can largely avoid money requests by dating upper-class girls. Here’s how you date girls who have their shit together:

  1. Use Tinder as your main online game resource
  2. Live/stay in the upper-class areas
  3. Daygame at the upscale malls
  4. Only go out to the high-end bars

A second tactic I’ve used successfully in the past to limit money requests is to pre-empt and kill the idea off before it develops.

When you start dating a Dominican woman:

  1. Tell her that you want a woman who is independent and can take care of herself
  2. Tell her that you like her because she isn’t like all the other Dominican women who are just looking for a guy to take care of them

If the above advice fails you, do what most guys I know here do—bang the girl a couple of times then kick her to the curb once she starts asking for money to pay for school, a new bag, pills for her sick uncle, and so on.

FLAKINESS

Flakiness in the Dominican Republic is not at epidemic levels like in Colombia but you will get flaked on a lot. You’ll get flaked on if it’s raining, if she is lazy and doesn’t feel like going out that night, if the meeting location is too far away, etc.

Flake rates drop a little when you get offline and work daygame and nightgame. When it all gets too frustrating and you feel like cracking coconuts over Dominican heads, here are two golden rules I always return to:

  • Have something better to do: go out with your friends, read a great book, make some money, go to an evening class, etc
  • Focus on quantity. If you only have one date lined up and she flakes, you’ll be annoyed. If you have 2 or 3 more that day, you won’t care

USING INSTAGRAM TO SEDUCE DOMINICAN WOMEN

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Overtly showing off wealth and status is huge in Dominican culture. This is why they are always taking photos of Nike Air Jordan sneakers and the bottle of Chivas Whiskey they are drinking at the club and updating their Whatsapp profile pictures hourly.

You can use this crass superficialness to your advantage by sending Dominican women photos and videos of yourself doing interesting activities: at the gym, at a concert, eating out, wearing nice clothes, at the beach, and so on.

The truth is, having a nice place, car, suit and ordering bottle service at the club makes a huge difference. I wish it didn’t and I wish I could just get by on my charm but I’ve given up on my principles in the quest for more Dominican success. At the clubs, Dominican girls are watching like hawks to see what you are ordering/drinking. I can guarantee you 2-3 times more eye contact in the club if you wear a suit and order a bottle.

TIENES HIJOS?

If you have an aversion to dating single mothers, the Dominican Republic is not the place for you. The island is crawling with single mothers and they will usually leverage the kid for money pleas.

Again, you can avoid these problems by dating upper class girls who speak English. Many of them will be single career women and childless up until their late twenties.

HOW DO YOU GET LAID IN THE DOMINICAN REPUBLIC?

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Here’s a truth: many Dominican girls will have a foreigner send her money on a monthly basis while at the same time banging her neighbour for free, while also lending him a peso or two when he’s broke.

Here’s how different groups of men fare in the DR:

  • Beta guys get played
  • Bad boys will do well
  • Alphas with money will clean up

If there is anywhere you need a strong frame as a man, it’s in the Dominican Republic.

One way you can put this into practice is to call her to confirm a date rather than pussy footing around on Whatsapp. Give her a choice of two days for dates and push for a venue close to your place.

Common Questions/Shit Tests:

  • Why are you in the Dominican Republic?
  • Why don’t you have a car?
  • Why don’t you have kids?
  • Who do you live with?

Have some responses prepared for the above questions so you can turn them around on her.

Finally, many guys think that all they need to do is “Sell The Dream” and Dominican girls will come running. However this type of game can backfire because they expect more and will hold out while you take them on fancy dates.

SHARPENING THE SAW

Here are the hierarchy of attributes that will either sky rocket or kill your results in the DR:

  1. Money (including fashion/style)
  2. Spanish
  3. English levels are only good amongst one group: rich kids who studied at bilingual schools but they can often be arrogant and elitist. You will definitely need more Spanish in the DR than in Peru or Argentina, for example
  4. Bachata/Merengue skills (for night game)
  5. Caucasian features

ONLINE GAME IN THE DR

Dominican Cupid or Latin American Cupid are the staples of online game in the DR (other than Tinder). If you’re not sure which one to choose, follow the tips in this article: https://thisistrouble.com/2016/11/22/latin-american-cupid

Once you get the number, use Facebook and Instagram to back up your online dating efforts and display a fun lifestyle. Build rapport by showing an interest in her culture: language, Dominican slang, food, music, travel locations, etc.

Quick Tip: My online results improved dramatically when I messaged less and sent more videos and photos.

DAYGAMING THE DOMINICAN

When stopping Dominican girls in malls, streets and Universities, I use either one of two methods:

  • Indirect: “I’m new in the country and lost.” Transition the conversation and suggest a meet up
  • Direct: Leverage your foreigner looks, get the number quick and get out

Whichever method you choose will either depend on your looks and level of Spanish.

NIGHTGAME

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Most clubs in the Dominican Republic are too loud to try to speak a second language – Spanish for you, English for her. This is when you need dance skills – Bachata and Merengue are the big in the DR and both are easier than Salsa.

Discretion is a must when getting a girl’s number (she will be with her family or boyfriend) so get some business cards printed and discreetly slip them or send the barman over.

DATE ROUTINES FOR DOMINICAN WOMEN

When arranging a date, many Dominican girls will suggest a location far from your place. Avoid this at all costs because there’s a 50% she will flake and you’ll be left hanging on the other side of the city. I’ve used the following line to knock some sense into the girl:

“I spent 1,000 dollars to come here from the US/Europe, (exaggerate the amount) and I’ve only been here 7 days so I don’t know the city very well. The least you can do is meet me here (a well known location near your place)”

If she refuses again, say that you’ll pay her taxi, that should seal the date. Expect to pay for a girl’s taxi in the Dominican Republic. Don’t be penny wise and pound foolish; are you going to miss out on a bang for an $4 taxi fare?

CONCLUSION

Dating in the Dominican Republic will toughen you up no doubt. You might have arrived a guppy but you’ll leave a shark.

You will have to deal with a lot of bullshit and you’ll wonder why you ever came, then you’ll swivel your head and see the most insane ass-to-waist ratio of your life…

Un abrazo,

El Conquistador

PS: If you’re ready to start meeting Dominican chicas, click here.

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  • Xxx says:

    This guys first language is definitely not english and he for sure sounds like a butterface with mommy issues. 😂😂😂

    • Kyle Trouble says:

      You sound uneducated.

      • Haha says:

        It is poorly written, anyone with a decent grasp of the english language would agree. As for the advice? You are basically telling men trying too hard will get them laid. Any man who has trouble getting laid will not be helped by this article.

      • Kyle Trouble says:

        What the literal fuck are you trying to say you moron?

  • BigPapa says:

    Oh leave the guy alone! He’s making valid points. Y’all are just a buncha haters.

    He’s been there and I too have dated DR women in the USA and they pay heavy games and are very materialistic.

    Check yourselves first before you judge this player. He’s obviously done his homework… why would you discount his worldly advice unless you’re just jelly or a broke ass idiot!

    Thank you for this article and I totally appreciate your taking the time to put it down in plain english. Tell these goons to put down the haterade and step up their game!

  • Jay says:

    Great article appreciate it, very insightful. I look forward to visiting the island.

  • MorenoFeo says:

    Yo This article has its flaws but really is a great depiction on how to roll in the DR , i lived in the DR for 2 years and i can relate to all of these points , this was a good read and thats coming from someone who was once a guppy and became a tiguere .

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  • danny says:

    As a Dominican woman I can tell you that you’re part wrong but part right. Not all women are the same, just like not all Dominican women are the same. You honestly sound like a guy who got rejected from a bunch of Dominican women and had to come up with some sort of tactic to get laid and help others get laid too. You can not judge certain people from living in a country for a year and 3 months. It’s not possible. You’re just a foreigner and the title of this sickines me. “How to Have Sex with Dominican Women” did you think before you wrote that title? Because if it was to stick out, it did…in a negative way. That was your first mistake. The second was making us seem like some sort of sexual object. MEN WAKE UP, WOMEN ARE NOT ONLY MADE FOR SEX. All you mentioned was our physical traits, from ass to face. And how skin color can affect those traits. In some part that is true, since I myself am mixed and have an hourglass body but not an ugly face. That’s honestly offensive, especially comparing us with another race. All around the world there will be unattractive people but you should never target them. Third, the personality section. What the actual fuck was that? Not all Dominican women are outgoing, assertive, social or even aggressive. Stop classifying certain women to certain traits. Every women is different and if you don’t like it then simply shut the fuck up. Fourth MONEY REQUESTS…… women do not work hard from 9-5 to be written on the internet like this. Yes some are gold diggers, yes some have like 5 boyfriends who pay everything for them but why even highlight that as a key point? If you want a one night stand like some people do and want a fine lady by your side in a club, yeah you’re gonna have to spend some. But that’s everywhere not only in the Dominican Republic. Also depends with the type of people you hang around with, other women like myself don’t give two shits if you have money or not because we have our own. It doesn’t matter if you’re upper class or lower class. Last but not least the rest of the list is simply absurd. I can’t believe we live in a society where men think like this..it’s honestly disappointing.

    • B Easy... says:

      My apologies for his ignorance. He does have me analyzing this Dominican woman at my job based off of his post. Though she’s giving me the signs, I’m on the defense.

  • victoria tavarez says:

    As a Dominican woman I can tell you that you’re part wrong but part right. Not all women are the same, just like not all Dominican women are the same. You honestly sound like a guy who got rejected from a bunch of Dominican women and had to come up with some sort of tactic to get laid and help others get laid too. You can not judge certain people from living in a country for a year and 3 months. It’s not possible. You’re just a foreigner and the title of this sickines me. “How to Have Sex with Dominican Women” did you think before you wrote that title? Because if it was to stick out, it did…in a negative way. That was your first mistake. The second was making us seem like some sort of sexual object. MEN WAKE UP, WOMEN ARE NOT ONLY MADE FOR SEX. All you mentioned was our physical traits, from ass to face. And how skin color can affect those traits. In some part that is true, since I myself am mixed and have an hourglass body but not an ugly face. That’s honestly offensive, especially comparing us with another race. All around the world there will be unattractive people but you should never target them. Third, the personality section. What the actual fuck was that? Not all Dominican women are outgoing, assertive, social or even aggressive. Stop classifying certain women to certain traits. Every women is different and if you don’t like it then simply shut the fuck up. Fourth MONEY REQUESTS…… women do not work hard from 9-5 to be written on the internet like this. Yes some are gold diggers, yes some have like 5 boyfriends who pay everything for them but why even highlight that as a key point? If you want a one night stand like some people do and want a fine lady by your side in a club, yeah you’re gonna have to spend some. But that’s everywhere not only in the Dominican Republic. Also depends with the type of people you hang around with, other women like myself don’t give two shits if you have money or not because we have our own. It doesn’t matter if you’re upper class or lower class. Last but not least the rest of the list is simply absurd. I can’t believe we live in a society where men think like this..it’s honestly disappointing.

    • Kyle Trouble says:

      Yawn. Nobody cares.

    • Wil Cruz Narvaez says:

      Well said☺

    • kalami says:

      I agree with you 100%. Fucking pathetic Americans talking shit about Dominican women

    • Mikal says:

      Only God knows why your comment makes me excited. I’m visualising you right now. Would love to see you put this on YouTube.

      I like the blog but I can imagine how it could be really insulting. If I try to imagine myself as a sexy DR woman with an hourglass figure and a full time job and 2 hijos.

      Most men are wired to be sex maniacs.
      Think of men as mice or rats. We like cheese but are terrified of getting trapped in the trap then suffering slow torture.

  • Mike Bohenek says:

    Women from Russia and the Ukraine are definitely the BEST.

    • Kyle Trouble says:

      I can agree with that.

      • Jreyes says:

        Mientras tanto aquí andan ciento de miles de mujeres dominicanas, solteras, trabajadoras, con o sin hijos, esperando con el corazón dispuesto por un buen hombre con quien puedan compartir sus vidas, que las respeten y las quieran como entienden merecer.

        Sin embargo, lo único que encuentran esas mujeres son hombres idiotas que quieren sexo sin compromiso con el solo chasquido de sus dedos, que presentan sus billetes como único atributo, que las dejan ante la primera nalga más voluptuosa que les pase por el frente y luego se sorprenden porque los dejan cuando el dinero deja de fluir. O se encuentran con un extranjero desajustado, que fue ignorado por las mujeres de su propio país por carecer de los atributos mínimos que debe poseer, como la caballerosidad, que piensa que las dominicanas todas somos unas muertas de hambre, prostitutas, chapiadoras (goldiggers) y que vamos a caer a sus pies cuando muestren sus billeteras. Fabuloso!

        Dejen de mostrar solo su dinero y muestren sus atributos como ser humano, como hombres, y verán que conseguirán el mejor sexo de sus vidas!

        I wrote this in spanish so that you at least make a small effort to understand us, before judging us so harshly.

  • Kalinda says:

    Wow reading this I can tell your dick is probably 2 inches.

  • Foreign+Love+Web says:

    I am beginning to think that Dominican Republic is Westernized. After all, its neighbor Haiti is pretty much the total opposite. I even have written a blog post (“Haitian Salvation”) about Haiti. I feel sorry for the people there.

    But, I am still attracted to those beautiful dark-skinned ladies in Dominican Republic…no comparison to the black women in USA.

  • B Easy... says:

    Well, I live in Orlando, originally from Philly and there is a Dominican woman at my job who has the body of a Goddess. Face isn’t perfect but that body makes up for it. She comes to work everyday and whenever I’m around it seems she makes it a point to let me know she’s there and her perfect ass is in my view. Her friend told me she wanted to know what nationality I am. I said Black and they said what else? Why is it so important for her to know this? I think she likes the way I talk and carry myself as well cause I have that up north Philly/New York swag. If you’re interested and I want you what’s the problem? Maybe she’s wondering how her kids would look if she became pregnant by me. Lol I don’t know. What do y’all think? Ladies I’d really like your opinion. What should I do and how should I approach her?

  • Flexbamboo@yahoo.com says:

    This article is on point. I was in this mix and all of this came at me as said.

  • Pappu takur says:

    Smart and beautiful woman

  • ALEX M. TITU. says:

    EVERY WEEK THEY HAVE ISSUES FOR THE MONEY.

    Yes, I’m agree with “ They have 4 to 5 different guys to funding her lifestyle, apartment, gym membership, cosmetics surgery etc etc.
    But they believe they’re not pr**te !!! How funny it is !!!

    My experience is also almost same as he mention.

    Thanks

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