The Ultimate Guide to Russian Girls

I’ve met a lot of fantastic people through this blog since I began writing it in July of 2013. A good friend of mine who I’ve traveled with on multiple occasions agreed to sit down with me and answer some questions about Russian girls, culture, and other travel tips.

Here are his thoughts.

My questions are in bold.



I’ve known you for several years now, and we’ve been around the world a bit. You’ve spent considerable time in Russia and I’ve heard your stories with the Russian girls. Could you elaborate a bit on where you’ve been in the Motherland, how long your trips were, and…well, why you decided to keep going back?

For some reason, as long as I can remember I’ve always been fascinated with Russia. So when an opportunity came to go with a friend on a tour that went through Russia, I jumped at the chance. Even though I was in a relationship and my concept of “game” was basically nonexistent, those few days in Russia essentially changed my life. I saw what real women can be like, and it went from there.

I came back again a few years later, and it just kept on progressing. I love Moscow, but I’ve been to several other cities as well spanning both coasts and in between as well. From what I can remember the longest stint I did was about six weeks consecutively.

What are Russian girls like?

In a word, inimitable. First I’ll preface this by saying that similar to any other grouping of any sort of people—here women—they were will always be outliers. But overall, there is this raw nature to Russian women that I have not found elsewhere, even in neighboring Ukraine.

I can write several paragraphs on this, but in general they are very passionate, very intelligent and very quick to sniff out incongruity. And of course, beautiful for the most part.

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What’s the best way to go about meeting Russian girls? 

Frankly there is no best way.

For me it was at bars and clubs but I know many people that have met them in the daytime or online as well.

Do you see a big difference in the attitude and quality of the “village girls” versus the Moscow and St. Petersburg ladies?

Nope, not at all.

You have to remember that most girls come to Moscow from outside that city—unlike their American counterparts, they do not fall into a sex and the city mindset. The traditionalist mindset permeates throughout the Motherland.

The one difference I do see is just in the day to day life in Moscow versus outside of it. Moscow is not real Russia, even though it maintains a lot of its traditional aspects.

From my own experience, and also as shown in Ukraine–the Former Soviet Union girls are ruthless. Try to kiss them 50 times and then on attempt #51 the magic happens. Any theories as to why this is?

They respect an actual man and want to see that you are willing to put in effort for them (one) and are also not afraid of rejection and have thick skin (two). It gets tiring and annoying at times, but this is their culture.

Any advice on how to accelerate the dating process a bit for those who don’t have the ability to take the longer trips? I know many of us have used flowers to great success 😉


Or if you have a more traditional/non-drinker Russian lady (which there are a lot of), see them everyday in the afternoon and save your nights for other girls. Go on walks, and bring flowers (yes this works).

However, there is no real shortcut.

Check out some of the ladies of Russia here.

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Generally speaking, what’s the best way to go about dating Russian girls? Do you find it’s a culture that values relationships and therefore they’re unlikely to have a one night stand?

Well you are asking me about two different things, so I’ll answer each in turn. Treat them as you would a mob boss in the 1950s.

Treat them well, you pay for everything, and you don’t take any shit. They understand the dating culture and the interaction (and roles) of men vs. women. You need to understand that, too.

To answer your second question, like anywhere else there are girls that will fuck you on the first night.

Let’s talk about the Russian language. How good are you and how necessary is it?

I’m decent, but I wouldn’t even say conversational. You have to spend a lot of time to get to conversational. As for how necessary it is, it depends on which Russian women you’re targeting. If you want to crack that higher quality girl, that is also not a pro/gold-digger, you will need some language skills. And if you are thinking a long term relationship, language becomes even more important as you try to forge a common ground and bond going forward.

What cities would you recommend and not recommend for men traveling?

Moscow if you know zero Russian. Moscow if you know some Russian. If you are going to venture to the other Russian cities, it will be fun and an experience but I would get some experience first in either Moscow or St. Petersburg.

What are the general prices of going out at night in a major metropolitan like Moscow? What about if you venture out to other cities in Russia?

With the devaluation of the Ruble prices are similar to going out in Los Angeles. Cheaper than New York but still on par with a major city. There was a small dip outside Moscow but nothing drastic.

This will not be a budget destination.

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Moscow vs. St. Petersburg—which one and why?

I personally like Moscow better. I am not a fan of museums or architecture. I also believe Moscow has much better looking women by a long shot.

What is your craziest story with a Russian girl?

I’ll tell you about a non-sexual one. It was leaving a club at 6am with my buddy and trying to find some food to eat. We ran into two girls at some street food stand who then invited us to their apartment.

Little did we know it was over an hour away by foot, through railroad tracks and grassland in a random Russian city. When we finally arrived, we were so tired neither of us even tried to have sex. One girl grabbed a guitar and sang her heart out to us, while the other took a quick nap until the grocery stores opened to go buy groceries to make us breakfast.

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What is your best heart-warming (i.e. real nice display of feminine qualities) that you had with Russian women?

There’s almost too many to pick from.

If I had to choose, it would be a story with one of the most attractive girls I had been with—who not so coincidentally did not speak a word of English—brought me a small present for my birthday even though we had only seen each other a few times. She knew I was leaving and wanted to give me something to have that I could remember her with.

Obviously, a huge thank you to my friend for taking the time to answer these questions. I know Russia is on the eyes of many of us digital nomads—both from a girl perspective, and simple traditional values. Many of us yearn for that kind of environment where men can be men and women can be women.

And both can be happy doing that.

до свидания,


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  • Hoyos says:

    An additional thing to add that you may not have thought about, but Russian women are STRONG. I don’t mean girl power woofing, I mean actually strong. Like tough dames in film noir movies.

  • eddie_7 says:

    Interesting article!
    Your friend said in reply to one of your questions that there isn’t a difference between “village girls” and girls from Moscow claiming that the traditionalist mindset permeates throughout the motherland. If this is indeed true I wonder where this mindset comes from? Cultural/religious values? Or perhaps they realize, unlike their American counterparts that “slutting it up”, decreases their value in men’s eyes and makes them undesirable as LTR/marriage prospects?

    Hoyos made a good point about Slavic women being strong. Is this strong as in being competent and resourceful? Western women see strength as constantly trying to gain the upper hand of the relationship. When you say they melt I assume this means they will submit to your frame and leadership?

    • Kyle Trouble says:

      Yes, they realize men value chastity. And their life goal is often to find a good man. They care far more about a husband and children than a silly career.

      They’re strong as in they are smarter and happier being independent than Western girls. They will test you relentlessly. But once they respect you it’s a different game.

    • Natasha says:

      His friend is full of shit. Moscow is a huge city. There is a downtown part, where women mostly look like models because oftentimes they ARE models that come from other parts of Russia to look for modeling gigs. If you go outside of downtown, the scenery changes by a lot. Most women are not model-looking and don’t have a “downtown” kind of personality. I was born and raised in Moscow, so I would know what I’m talking about. This guy is full of shit.

      • Kyle Trouble says:

        I looked at your email address. Born in 1982?

        Someone is bitter her time of being a woman of worth in the world is gone.

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  • Natasha says:

    Whoever wrote this garbage had to be high on drugs. Well, you could tell the ignorance of the writer by the fact that he doesn’t like culture, and that is a telling sign of low intellect.

    First of all, Moscow is a huge city and you probably have only been to the downtown part of it. There are other areas of the city which are not all glam and glitter. Secondly, “pay for everything?” Real Russian women are strong and don’t need men to support them like little children. Unless she is using you like a stupid wallet that she will discard later. Russian women like strong men with a good sense of humor and a good head on their shoulders. Only used up prostitutes look for sugar daddies to support them, but I guess that’s the type of women you are attracted to. I’ve been living in the US for a while now and am tired of people assuming that Russian women are pieces of meat that are looking for rich old men everywhere. At any rate, this is sad…

    • Kyle Trouble says:

      You know, I was going to erase all of your pointless drivel, but then something stood out to me…

      “I’ve been living in the US for a while now”

      Pretty much explains everything. Now my readers know what happens when you take an FSU girl to the West; she becomes a cunt

      • eddie_7 says:

        Indeed Natasha’s nonsensical drivel shows the effect of Western influence on the mentality of foreign women. Her immature emotional outbursts is shown by her ad hominem attacks of the guest writer: “full of shit”, “high on drugs”, “this garbage” etc. I also noticed she uses excessive emotional language: “little children”, “pieces of meat” etc so to emotionally manipulate readers. It seems she utterly fails to understand masculine and feminine roles so she reverts to setting up false and twisted representations of women who chooses feminine roles. She achieves this by making weeping generalizations and regresses to using the cliche overused stereotype of the “sugar daddy” and “used up prostitutes” in order to distract readers by this red herring.

        This reminds me of how my father recently talked to a Russian nurse when he was being treated. He said she was “new” and with a heavy accent. I wonder how long(or short) it takes for her to become like the Western women around her.

      • Kyle Trouble says:

        You’re dead on, Eddie. Natasha’s femininity is dead.

      • Bill says:

        I have lived in many EE and FSU and also Russia. I thought your article was very respectful. In Russia women want a strong man who takes care of them. There is nothing wrong with that. In Russia a man has to be a man, unlike the USA where a man can be just fine being a woman.

      • Nadia says:

        Cunt?! That`s pretty much offensive, pal. You`ve no respect for women really, do you?

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