The Biggest Pitfall of Dating Younger Girls
Bet this is a post title you never thought you’d see here…
First off, let’s take it with a grain of salt.
I’m only 24 years old. “Younger” for me is, well, something kind of ridiculous to say. So for simplicity’s sake, we’re talking younger in an emotional sense. By this point, many people think I’m way older than I actually am, and sometimes I wonder if I’m actually 50 years old. So really, when I say younger girls I mean purely from an emotional sense and the way they look at life.
Some girls are very wide-eyed to the world. They project a kind of naiveness, vulnerability, and curiosity to the world – because they haven’t been exposed to very much. I’ve found that here in Ukraine, this is going to be even more common than in the West, simply because of the nuclear family philosophy. These girls live with their parents until an older age, are generally more sheltered, and therefore haven’t seen much of the world, or much of how other cultures act. In general, their “life experience” is low. We’ll get to the downsides of that situation in a minute, but let’s also look at the plus side.
They’re less likely to be slutty and have a high notch count (or even a high amount of experience with sex, in general). They’re less likely to be poisoned by the negative aspects of Western society. They’re more likely to want to have a family and children. They’re more likely to have domestic skills.
You take the good with the bad.
And also, I don’t have a ton of experience with dating younger girls. For the most part, I’ve dated girls my age (or even slightly older) when it comes to the more serious relationships I’ve been in since I went down my “game path” about three years ago.
SO WHAT’S THE PROBLEM?
It’s not so much of a problem as it is just a bit of inconvenience. When a girl you’re dating simply doesn’t have much life experience, you have to teach. Potentially, you have to teach a lot. About what you, as a man, expect out of a relationship. What her role is. Expectations for how much time to spend together. How to please you. How to be better in bed.
The list just doesn’t seem to end, now that I keep looking at it – I could have written quite a bit more, but I’ve made my point.
And really, this is not a bad thing, I really don’t mind it. It’s absolutely worth it to train a quality girl in what you like and what you expect, because then you get to mold things to how you like, instead of her having a preconceived notion of how things should and shouldn’t be. And in the West, that preconceived notion is usually not a good thing.
But it is a little bit tiring at certain points.
Which is why I’m writing this.
I just have to keep reminding myself to have some patience.
But I can see it in her eyes.
The eyes never lie.
So whilst sometimes my patience might wear thin and a part of me desired the ready-made sluts of other places, I keep reminding myself.
The juice is worth the squeeze.
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