In episode 30 of Troublesome Radio, I discuss the differences in US and Ukrainian dating culture, and dig into some other random thoughts about travel and more.
Glad to see you address this. You’re now into the area where a lot of PUAs totally fail at being men (in my opinion).
Whatever they claim, I fail to see the masculinity in taking a 19 year old gir’s virginity, whom you had no intention of actually pursuing a relationship with, just to satisfy a fleeting sexual urge. Masculinity isn’t about “muh fuck girls” – it’s about honour, virtue, and principles.
Shagging a slutty girl from the West who’s already had numerous one night stands? No problem, go for it.
But girls like this, I personally believe, if you have no genuine intention of actually pursuing something more lasting with them, then leave them alone. You can cause lasting emotional damage to them, and mess them up for any future men who were more serious about them.
Hey, maybe it doesn’t work out, but you’ll at least be able to look yourself in the eye.
Simon, thanks buddy. It means a lot.
Exactly, some Western whore who has played dozens, if not hundreds of men – I have NO issue whatosever with pumping and dumping her like the piece of used up garbage she is. I wouldn’t feel the slightest bit of remorse.
But here? Good lord, I definitely don’t think I would have actually fucked this girl if I didn’t actually feel SOMETHING for her.
At the same time, I realize my age and hers don’t exatly match – me 24, her 21. There is obviously low chance for REALLY long term because I want to capitalize on my own value. But at the same time, I want something with her in the immediate now. Hopefully she flies out to the next city.
In any case, I agree – if you’re a Western man, you have been truly screwed by society. Life has beaten and kicked you to the God damn curb. But if you want to take out your sexual urges…yeah, there’s better places than the 19 year old EE virginal girl. Such as Southeast Asia, Colombia, Poland….many places where you can have the masculine/feminine dynamic but with girls who have been around the block and not ruin a poor girl.
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