There is a new fad in text game these days. Voice messages.
Made popular by texting apps such as Whatsapp, even basic iMessage allows you to send short voice snippets to girls now.
And it’s a very powerful tool.
Remember the days where you used to have to actually call a girl? Well, those are now long gone because most girls refuse to answer the phone.
But voice messages is the closest thing you can get to showing this confidence. Because the voice messages are basically delivered by text, it doesn’t feel as formal of a process – but still gets you brownie points for having the balls to speak up.
Which is extremely crucial and adds a personal element to the interaction. Especially with girls that you meet via online dating, whom you’ve never met in person. Sending a charming voice message could very well be the difference between her guilty conscience stopping her from flaking, versus not giving a damn in the world about you.
I’ve found that sending voice messages significantly reduces the number of flakes I receive from girls whom I met via online methods.
It doesn’t mean they will automatically agree to a date – but once it’s been agreed upon (and a time and location set), you’ll find your flake rate on those agreed dates will drop significantly.
This goes hand in hand with #1, but it’s worth mentioning again.
Most men are weak.
Women do not desire weak men, they desire the best of the best. Sending voice messages is something that most guys don’t do, so you will automatically be seen as higher value.
Texting is an extremely frustrating endeavor sometimes. You have to get the point across on a small keyboard, in limited words, and it’s difficult to show tone and emotion.
A voice message allows you to get more words in, be more clear, and show emotion and tone when necessary. You’ll be shocked how much more you can get across in a 20 second voice message versus sending multiple texts.
In addition – it’s a time saver. It’s far easier to record a quick voice message while walking around than it is to constantly have your head buried in your phone.
Seriously guys – give this a try. I promise you won’t be disappointed.
Real short post today – I’m toying with the idea of doing a video or podcast on this to elaborate further, with some examples. If there’s an interest in this, leave a comment below.