Men, this is exactly what you DON’T do if you want to have a meaningful relationship with a sensible woman: NOT listen to women talk about women
You don’t objectify women if you want a true companion. If you are straight, only honest, two-way relationship with women will make you happy. If you are latent gay, come out and be yourself.
Self improvement for men means helping them achieve inner peace and self respect. This is hard work and you can’t achieve this by cheap tricks.
If you use your White Anglo-Saxon Male position to seduce Asian or Eastern-European women, you are not only abusing your privilege, but you are an agressor and a racist prick, as well.
Kyle, if you don’t want to be seen as a PUA, work on your writing skills
Peace my friend
Feel free to try the above advice and never have success with women.
Major projection here:
I have to say that as a hungarian woman-from an international background- what really annoyed me how you blatantly describe that hungarian women can be bought by money (since they are poor and have trouble starting their lives on their own…this is aggravating enough on it’s own, c’mon no one chose or deserved to be born in one country or another). The very reason those women rejected you was the same contemptuous attitude you just showed in that single paragraph. Yes, many of my fellow women do appreciate someone not looking down on them, and no wonder they are nice to you if you also act nice, and maybe they do appreciate you inviting them out, but not because we are poor or we are hungarian or we are …anything, apart from being women having fun at a bar. I would appreciate it if next time you visited Budapest you really tried to make an effort and talk to these women, and maybe get to know them. (Or just forget it, a pussy doesn’t need a mouth afterall…)
More bad advice:
One very simple advise for the followers of this asshole. Do you want to get girl? RESPECT HER instead of writing and talking sexist bullshit… Come on…
Regular reader and commenter sway chimed in to respond to that one (thanks buddy!):
If that worked, guys wouldn’t be seeking this site out for advice. Guys tried your way, shit doesn’t work.
And some senseless rage:
You are a disgusting, sexist, fucking ugly man who speaks about Hungarian Girls like whores. And this really really makes me angry, not just because I am a Hungarian Girl, just because I am a woman. I hardly recommend you to go fuck yourself and your money, you narrow-minded moron!
Finally, how about some good comments!
What a comical comment section.
What I see here is a load of butthurt women not liking the reflection they are seeing when the mirror is held up to them. We live in a time when to state simple truths about human nature is not permitted.
Women have exchanged youth and beauty for wealth and status since our biological origins. That doesn’t change just because everyone thinks they’re a special snowflake in the 21st century. You’re always going to do better in a poorer country if you come from a more wealthy one, it’s not exactly rocket science.
Don’t forget, if this simple fact was embraced as common knowledge (as it was throughout history), suddenly 30+ year old washed up sluts or ugly women lose their ability to trick men out of realising their own value, and into marrying them. So of course it’s in their interest to try to keep a lid on it and shame men who state the truth.
For what it’s worth, I thought this article was pretty moderate in tone, did not describe the girls of Hungary as stupid gold digging sluts who can be bought, and Kyle has been more than polite in responding to many of these vile acerbic cat women who are vomiting their own self-loathing all over the place.
There are a lot of hateful comments here from hungarian men and women. I think it is not the opinion of whole country.
I think it is because of the facebook site, that shared this article a day ago. This facebook site is about sexual crime, and that women are just victims. (“Nem tehetsz róla, tehetsz ellene”.) The site shared this article with a long hateful comment, and the people readnig this could see just the same. In addition, peolpe liking this facebook site may had close contact with sexual crime, so they are pretty sensitive to articles like this.
It may help understand the reactions from Hngary.
(Sorry for my really bad English, I am Hungarian, 22.)
Hi, im from Budapest. Sorry for my retard fellow-countrymen, they cant really stand the truth. Im sure they are rotting at home during Friday/Saturdays night and got nothing to do with the city center’s night life.
Though Im sure most of them only upset because you wrote that “broom closets” line.
That was funny 😀
But all the other things are true. Average salary in Budapest (not in Hungary, so excluding the shitty countyside) is still just ~750 USD, thats a fact, so why we Hungarians are surprised that money can be “charming” for women. Of course it doesn’t mean that they are with you because of your money, but it can play a significant role.
All the guys are crying that “women want money, they are gold diggers etc” but when a foreigner writes that in a blog they are outraged. LOL.
Keep hooking up with hot but poor Eastern European girls my man 8)
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