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Hacking Your Sexual Marketplace Value As A Male

It’s been discussed before, there’s a lot of things that can make you more attractive to women.  Whilst a woman’s worth is determined primarily by her nearly-always rapidly deteriorating looks, us men are a little bit more on the fortunate side.  A general list of things that can make you more attractive to women would include.

  1. Game
  2. Fame
  3. Fitness
  4. Money
  5. Sex
  6. Goals

Add all of these together, plus a man’s looks, and you will get a male’s sexual market value.  However, the key point is not to realize what these things mean to a girl individually.  For example, a girl by herself does not care if you’re famous, or what for.  But, she would love to show the famous musician off to her friends if she “scores” him.

A girl by herself does not care if you have a ripped six pack.  But, she would love to have you whip off your shirt on a hot summer day while at a pool party with all of her friends.

A girl by herself does not care if you make $250,000 a year.  But, she would love to show off to her friends the pictures from the expensive vacation you two went on together.

A girl by herself actually probably does care how you fuck her.  But, even more so, she would love to rehash the stories of your sexual prowess to her friends over their weekly girly gossip sessions in which you should never ask about or partake in.

A girl by herself does not care if you are an inspiring writer, or want to travel the world.  But, she would love to show off to her  friends what an ambitious, reach-for-the-stars kind of guy you are.

To quote tomorrow’s post about hacking your SMV value as a female:

In the animal kingdom that we live in, status is king.  The value of the man she obtains directly impacts the female, and dictates her own worth in society.  Naturally, everyone wants to be at the top of the hierarchy, looking down upon everyone else.  Females are naturally incredibly competitive creatures, especially amongst themselves. They want to show off, stab each other in the back for personal gain, and be more valuable to male’s than all of their friends.  This is exactly why you see the hot chicks with ugly friends.

Granted, in today’s poisonous society, females are becoming increasingly competitive amongst males as well – resulting in MOAR CATS for EVERYONE!  However, that is a topic for another time.

So, now that we have established that a male’s sexual marketplace value is directly impacted, how do you hack it as a male.  It’s quite simple, the social kingdom must simply perceive you as a high-value male.  In this case, it’s the girls friends.  How do you hack that, then?

It’s easy: you shut the fuck up.

Understand that when a girl introduces you to her friends, or talks about you to them – she is automatically going to shed you in the best possible light so that her friends perceive her as the queen bee.  It is completely within female nature to lie, embellish, and destroy each other.

If you don’t have money, or you have a shitty job, your girl will have at least sold you as an up-and-comer.  When pressed for questions, shrug them off and change the topic.

If you have a relatively successful blog, YouTube channel, or something else that gives you some e-fame, your girl will have made it sound like the greatest thing since sliced bread.  Roll with it.

If you want to travel the world but haven’t made any plans to do so, your girl will have told her friends about how you plan to do so “soon”.  So, talk in theory.  “Yeah, by next year, I want to go to countries X, Y, and Z.”

If you are fucking her good like you should be, her friends will all be jealous – because they get boring sex with pussy-whipped men who don’t know how to dominate a woman.  If pressed about your sex life, a smirk and wink will be all you need.  No needs for words to be spoken.

This is one of the easiest ways to increase your SMV, because her friends will think higher of you – raising your status in your girl’s eyes.  Truthfully, speaking less is more alpha than talking a lot, so that also increases your SMV.

Less is more.  So shut the fuck up.

Read More: The Fears Of Being A World Traveler

  • March 23, 2014
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  • The idea women care more about the status created by something than the thing itself is interesting, because it’s the opposite for men. Most men would prefer sleeping with a perfect ten and not being able to tell anyone about it, to showing off a ten to their friends, but not actually sleeping with her. I know I frequently keep my sexual exploits private, simply because I don’t want to deal with the social blowback publicizing them might cause.

    It’s also interesting because it means a low status man can hook-up if he keeps it on the down-low, the same way an unattractive woman could score with a man if it’s late and none of the man’s friends will ever see him with said woman.

    Do you think women who hook-up with scumbag drug dealers or unemployed men with little social status are more likely to talk them up to their friends or keep it quiet and just keep enjoying the aloof jerk behavior by themselves?

    I’d also add – the talking up often comes in the form of complaints. “Oh my God! He hasn’t texted me back. And all these other girls are flirting with him. Ugh! Can you believe it?” Yes, but I can’t believe it actually bothers you by how you smile when you say that, woman.

    • thirdtonic says:

      “The idea women care more about the status created by something than the thing itself is interesting, because it’s the opposite for men”

      This makes a lot of sense when you look at it in context. As GLL has been discussig in his college series, social standing is everything in the female world.Girls want the best man, not to be the best themselves. Thus, they look for the men in their lives with the traits, skills and experiences that they can talk about. And if they can’t get the best man, they will try to big up their man.

      “It’s also interesting because it means a low status man can hook-up if he keeps it on the down-low,”
      I think this ties in with why a lot of game newcomers are told to shutup more, especially in texting. A newbie tend to have less value or be less aware of how to broadcast their value, so the more they say the more chances they have to emasculate themselves. If she doesn’t know you’re low value, then to her you aren’t.

      “Do you think women who hook-up with scumbag drug dealers or unemployed men with little social status are more likely to talk them up to their friends or keep it quiet and just keep enjoying the aloof jerk behavior by themselves?”

      How many girls in abusive relationships will jump at the chance to tell you how kind or tender their boyfriends can be? Or how great the relationship feels when its going “well”?

    • “Do you think women who hook-up with scumbag drug dealers or unemployed men with little social status are more likely to talk them up to their friends or keep it quiet and just keep enjoying the aloof jerk behavior by themselves?”

      I think it depends how bad they are. If they’re charismatic, they may bring them around and attempt to fool the friends. If they’re a flat-out douchebag, it’s unlikely he is willing to be committed – hence she would probably keep him on the down low.

      We need a woman to comment on this ^.

  • The Lone Planet says:

    Basically, we’re nothing but arm candy.

  • One thing to watch out for: all women care about our partner’s status. Even those of us with very low empathy, logic-based/cold empathy or repressed empathy. However, women without open empathy will not talk to their friends in private about you. At all. Maybe if they ask they may talk objectively about things you do, but no boasting, bragging or anything of the kind when you’re not around.
    If her friends ask and you’re too vague, her friends will get the impression you’re uninteresting and undesirable. Which, if she’s at all close to any of them, could lead to her pulling away from you.
    So, if your woman spends a lot of time with her friends, but doesn’t seem to talk to them about you, you may need to drop hints about how awesome you are. Props, like photos on her phone and jewellery, are good, but could be expensive. The best option is usually just to respond whenever they ask with something that suggests you’re doing better than they expect and better than their men.

    If your woman’s just generally quiet and detached from most people and doesn’t have “girls nights”, she’s probably not at all concerned with talking about you to her friends, so you don’t need to do much to boost how she views you; just be awesome and she’ll be smug and quiet and enjoy the fact you have status that other women’s men don’t. Then again, women in the last group tend to stay close to you and show mate-guarding behaviours around their friends, which artificially boosts your status anyway. (“She likes him THAT much? He must be a catch. I want someone like that.”)

    Pretty much my entire current social circle is low-no empathy and the dynamics flip right around when you find yourself in a group like that. Even an isolated low-no empathy female will act oddly around empaths and female herds.

    • All you need to read is “jewelry” from this entire comment to know that (no offense, you seem like a nice girl) it is in fact terrible advice.

      • I was saying jewellery may work as a replacement for her talking (“He gets her things, that makes him good.”), but is a bit of a waste of cash. And this method seems to be the only way men can hold down females in our circles. Keeping completely quiet = the “louder” females bitching behind your back = the weaker females dumping their boyfriends within a week. Low-no empathy generally means she won’t be talking about you. However, if the empathy is only low, that means she still cares what her friends think of you, even though she won’t speak about you and may not defend you when they bitch.

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  • Alex Ferrero says:

    Damn man — I was thinking about these subjetct to write and youre already done all. But lucky my I’ll write in portuguese, ’cause the plague who are changing all game are hitting Brazil, and hit me first.

    So its a brandnew world with news distorced rules. Thanks for all advice.

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