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Update on 2013 Goals & 2014 Goal Setting

I wrote this list of goals when describing my journey back in September.  Here’s how they turned out:

1. Continue writing this blog.  I have already been featured on some big sites and am starting to average close to 100 hits a day.  UPDATE: done.  I’ve got my own fucking column now.
2. Save $7,000 $3,500.  Done.  It’s going to…#6, as planned.
3. Finish a technology eBook I’m working on.  Not done…changed courses and am writing a San Diego dating guide instead.
4. Find a candidate for an open long term relationship, and lay the groundwork for that.  Done…kinda.
5. Bang 9 new girls. (9 8 7 6 5 4 to go) <– probably not gonna happen.  I’ve averaged 2 notches/month this year.  Apparently I thought I could nail down 9 more in less than 3 months.  I will try though.  Not done…
6. Figure out London/living situations for the near future.  I’m taking a trip to Poland, Czech, Switzerland, and NYC in 2014.
7. My night game and online game are both sharp.  I need better day game skills.  I may have to move to make it happen, so this goes hand in hand with #6.  Done.  I’ve had some success with daygame, direct and indirect.  Need to continue sharpening it though.

Nobody sticks to their January 1st goals.  Mine start now.

FITNESS

• <10% body fat.  Full six pack.  I’m close but just need to buckle down for a month.
• Take a weekly picture of my progress.
• 50 pull-ups in a single set.  I’m at 30 now.
• 10 pull-ups with 2×45 lb plates hanging from my waist.
• Figure out how to juice and do it.
• Get my mountain bike out once a week.
• Play basketball twice a week.

CASH MONEY

• eBook #1 released and on sale by March 1st.  Second one by September 1st.
• Get promoted/figure out my job situation.

WRITING/BLOG

• A “viral” post at ROK much like the recent “Eating Disorders” article.  My “20 Reasons” article was mini-viral in itself.
• A minimum of 5 blog posts a week.  I’ve been really good at one a day for several months now so I don’t anticipate this being a problem.  I do think posting everyday is going to burn me out and be overkill, though.
• 1,000 Twitter followers.

GAME

• One dedicated daygame session a week.  Minimum of 3 hours.  Right now, it’s not feasible to do it every day for me.  But…if I’m my own boss in a few years, it will be.  This will let me sharpen my skills in the meantime.
• 25 new notches.
• My first threesome.
• Solo nightgame one night a week.
• Get “in” at a local bar, can go hand in hand with the previous point on this list.

GENERAL LIFE

• Take my planned Europe/NYC trip and approach at least 250 hundred girls over these two and a half weeks.
• Finally make the mods to my Mustang I want to do.
• Stick to my 21 daily habits.
• Try one new recipe a week.
• Decide where I want to live and make a plan for it.
• Meet more fellow writers/readers in the Manosphere.
• Vegas!  At least once.  Phil, did your parents buy that damn condo yet?!

Read More: My 21 Daily Goals