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Update on 2013 Goals & 2014 Goal Setting
I wrote this list of goals when describing my journey back in September. Here’s how they turned out:
- Continue writing this blog. I have already been featured on some big sites and am starting to average close to 100 hits a day. UPDATE: done. I’ve got my own fucking column now.
- Save
$7,000$3,500. Done. It’s going to…#6, as planned. - Finish a technology eBook I’m working on. Not done…changed courses and am writing a San Diego dating guide instead.
- Find a candidate for an open long term relationship, and lay the groundwork for that. Done…kinda.
- Bang 9 new girls. (
9876 54 to go) <– probably not gonna happen. I’ve averaged 2 notches/month this year. Apparently I thought I could nail down 9 more in less than 3 months. I will try though. Not done… - Figure out London/living situations for the near future. I’m taking a trip to Poland, Czech, Switzerland, and NYC in 2014.
- My night game and online game are both sharp. I need better day game skills. I may have to move to make it happen, so this goes hand in hand with #6. Done. I’ve had some success with daygame, direct and indirect. Need to continue sharpening it though.
Nobody sticks to their January 1st goals. Mine start now.
FITNESS
- <10% body fat. Full six pack. I’m close but just need to buckle down for a month.
- Take a weekly picture of my progress.
- 50 pull-ups in a single set. I’m at 30 now.
- 10 pull-ups with 2×45 lb plates hanging from my waist.
- Figure out how to juice and do it.
- Get my mountain bike out once a week.
- Play basketball twice a week.
CASH MONEY
- eBook #1 released and on sale by March 1st. Second one by September 1st.
- Get promoted/figure out my job situation.
WRITING/BLOG
- A “viral” post at ROK much like the recent “Eating Disorders” article. My “20 Reasons” article was mini-viral in itself.
- A minimum of 5 blog posts a week. I’ve been really good at one a day for several months now so I don’t anticipate this being a problem. I do think posting everyday is going to burn me out and be overkill, though.
- 1,000 Twitter followers.
GAME
- One dedicated daygame session a week. Minimum of 3 hours. Right now, it’s not feasible to do it every day for me. But…if I’m my own boss in a few years, it will be. This will let me sharpen my skills in the meantime.
- 25 new notches.
- My first threesome.
- Solo nightgame one night a week.
- Get “in” at a local bar, can go hand in hand with the previous point on this list.
GENERAL LIFE
- Take my planned Europe/NYC trip and approach at least 250 hundred girls over these two and a half weeks.
- Finally make the mods to my Mustang I want to do.
- Stick to my 21 daily habits.
- Try one new recipe a week.
- Decide where I want to live and make a plan for it.
- Meet more fellow writers/readers in the Manosphere.
- Vegas! At least once. Phil, did your parents buy that damn condo yet?!
Read More: My 21 Daily Goals
I really need to do a list like this for the new year. Some quite similar things. Others very different. I think it’s great that you can blog daily.
It’s not easy, but possible if you dedicate an hour each day.
“Figure out how to juice and do it”
DM me on twitter.
I read some of your blogs, you’re pretty good (at least compared to the psychos at ROK), though sometimes you come off as a delusional nerd. I think I can relate to you because we’re the same age. Anyway, word of advice, I’ve been in Poland for a week now, staying with my Polish chick for the winter….you’re going to need some shoe lifts man. I think you said something about you’re 5’something…I’m 6’2, in my boots I’m nearing 6’3 to 6’4 and I’m average here. In Spain and the Balkans I towered over most, even in the States I feel tall….I think anything under 6′ is considered a shorty doowap…all the girls here in heels are nearing 6′ or a little under it. Just trying to help you out. People in Czech seemed normal size though, at least in Prague last year….seems Poles are giants nowadays though,
That undermines the whole point of going, though. I want to see what the girls in other countries are like. If they’re shallow and are going to disqualify me based on height, so be it. I won’t go back.
It’s never been a problem for me before though and I’ve gone out with women as tall or taller than me plenty of times, so I’m not too concerned.
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