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One Picture Summing Up Everything Wrong In America: Breakdown

As mentioned yesterday, I took this photo last week while out gaming with some of the guys.  We were at a fairly popular club in the college district of San Diego on a Saturday night.  What’s wrong with this picture?  Here it is again for convenience:

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The List Of Wrong (Female)

  1. You can’t tell here, but this lady is probably pushing forty years old.  Admittedly, she has a nice body for her age.
  2. She’s clearly attention whoring.
  3. She’s clearly not receiving it.  Except for…

The List of Wrong (Male)

  1. When girls mention “creepy” guys at the club, this is exactly what comes to mind.
  2. Poor body language.  Shoulders are slouched, though I’m surprised his hands aren’t in his pockets.
  3. Judging by the way is neck is “tilted”, he’s clearly vividly fantasizing about the female who he can never have, when he should be out of HER league.

I couldn’t stop laughing when I took this picture.  It just flat-out disgusted me in many ways, though it’s hard to pinpoint why until you really start to break down the psychology behind all of it.

As mentioned, this lady was pushing forty years old.  She’s kept herself in shape but when I got a good look at her face, she had definitely already hit the wall.  What’s disgusting about this?  The old cougar, out on the prowl, looking to recapture the glory days.  We as a society are generally programmed to think of this as kinda, well, fucking gross.  As much as post-wall female members protest that cougars are desirable and attractive, this is simply not the case.  So when us men see forty year old women up on stage twerkin’ it, we’re just naturally repulsed by it.

In addition to the age factor, she’s also establishing many signs of a slut.  Guys love sluts to fuck, and not much beyond that.  By getting up and attention whoring it, she’s sending plenty of signals that she might give it up, but that she probably won’t be of much good besides a warm vagina.

Yet, I’m sure she wonders why she’s single and hasn’t found anyone.

Meanwhile, I feel so bad for this dude.  He’s probably in his mid-twenties, and while I didn’t get a great look at his face, he doesn’t appear to be a bad-looking guy.  A little pudgy, but an overall solid frame.  He can grow decent facial hair.  His clothes are generally too baggy and as mentioned, his body language is piss-poor, but the point I’m trying to make is: all of this could be corrected with a little guidance, and he would probably be above average for a male.  This is even in San Diego, where the competition is notoriously tough as a guy.

Instead, we’re left with this poor-fitted bastard who is slobbering over the opportunity to stare at, not even talk to, a women who is a half-decade/decade (whatever your scale is) past the wall.  This is the type of guy who sits by the bar nursing his drink while staring around at all the pretty girls, but unable to put himself into action, take risk, and become a man.  A few red pill beliefs instilled, a little bit of coaching, and all of a sudden this guy is living a much more worthwhile life.

Maybe it’s time I start carrying around business cards.

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  • November 13, 2013
  • mikehawke03 says:

    papi chulo is thirsty.

  • mikehawke03 says:

    papi chulo is thirsty.

  • In Asia, that woman’s shirt = average skirt length. No pants underneath.

  • I am healed says:

    I find your view on things bizarre so will just help you to maybe see things from another angle as it concerns me for somebody to be so closed minded.

    I am from the UK, it is well known by the majority of people with average and above average intelligence that clubs are not places to start relationships but where desperate people do go out to get laid. I’m sure there are some people who started relationships in clubs but I do not know any of them, however I know many people who do go to them with the sole intention of finding somebody to do dirty dancing with and then get laid.

    Age? why does this even get a mention. Not every guy is repulsed out by older women. I don’t know many but I do know of at least 3 couples of women in their 40’s & 50’s dating guys in their 20’s, they have all been together for over 2 years. None of the women are rich and none of them are thin and toned like the women above but what two of the guys I have spoken to their reason for ‘preferring’ them to the younger women is that they are comfortable with their bodies and themselves, they don’t stand in clubs posing like alot of the younger women do, they have fun and do not mind embarrassing themselves. They are also less demanding in a high maintenance in relationship. Of course this is not a general statement as can only be based on the girls those guys had experience with in the past.

    For the past 10 years(since I was 16) I have been attracted to older guys, sometimes 10 years older but a few occasions 30 years older than me. I dont go for ‘older guys’ in general, just a few of them have stood out. Was I grossed out by them due to their age, not at all. Have I been grossed out by another person before, yes, people of all ages and genders. I think its wrong to suggest that ALL younger guys are grossed out by older women gyrating their groins. Some older guys are grossed out by older women. Everyone has their own preference.

    ‘Yet im sure she wonders why she’s single and hasn’t found anyone’ I guess that could be one of MANY possible reasons. But again, I dont know any women who would go to a club, dance sexually and expect it to result in a relationship, maybe sex.

    Not all women are constantly in a disney daydream looking for ‘the one’, especially to show up at club. Its realy not gender specific, some guys do exactly the same thing.

    I wonder how old you are, I guess pretty young as not many people past the age of 21 would still believe that good looking guys get good looking women and less attractive folk end up with each other. I dont want to slap your wrists because maybe that has just been your life experience so far. Mine though has lead me to believe that models can and do end up marrying overweight farmers who only see the bathtub once a week.

    Your last paragraph just has me shaking my head in disbelief

    • Two questions:

      1) are you male or female?
      2) how old are you?

      I’ll respond more in depth when I get home from work.

    • Okay, here goes:

      I find your view on things bizarre so will just help you to maybe see things from another angle as it concerns me for somebody to be so closed minded.

      Close minded? No. I’ve had my eyes opened wide by how society operates in the last year. You can scroll back through my blog to see HOW.

      I am from the UK, it is well known by the majority of people with average and above average intelligence that clubs are not places to start relationships but where desperate people do go out to get laid. I’m sure there are some people who started relationships in clubs but I do not know any of them, however I know many people who do go to them with the sole intention of finding somebody to do dirty dancing with and then get laid.

      Of course not. Bars/clubs are for hookups. You don’t meet the “nice” girls there.

      Age? why does this even get a mention. Not every guy is repulsed out by older women. I don’t know many but I do know of at least 3 couples of women in their 40′s & 50′s dating guys in their 20′s, they have all been together for over 2 years. None of the women are rich and none of them are thin and toned like the women above but what two of the guys I have spoken to their reason for ‘preferring’ them to the younger women is that they are comfortable with their bodies and themselves, they don’t stand in clubs posing like alot of the younger women do, they have fun and do not mind embarrassing themselves. They are also less demanding in a high maintenance in relationship. Of course this is not a general statement as can only be based on the girls those guys had experience with in the past.

      Age matters because younger women are more attractive.

      https://thisistrouble.com/2013/09/19/back-again-to-biology-basics-younger-girls-hotter/

      Then those guys in their 20s dating girls in their 40s and 50s have no game. Or they like the money. This is not a case of them having game and CHOOSING these older cougars.

      For the past 10 years(since I was 16) I have been attracted to older guys, sometimes 10 years older but a few occasions 30 years older than me. I dont go for ‘older guys’ in general, just a few of them have stood out. Was I grossed out by them due to their age, not at all. Have I been grossed out by another person before, yes, people of all ages and genders. I think its wrong to suggest that ALL younger guys are grossed out by older women gyrating their groins. Some older guys are grossed out by older women. Everyone has their own preference.

      Once again, biology rules. You’re attracted to power and status.

      ‘Yet im sure she wonders why she’s single and hasn’t found anyone’ I guess that could be one of MANY possible reasons. But again, I dont know any women who would go to a club, dance sexually and expect it to result in a relationship, maybe sex.

      Not all women are constantly in a disney daydream looking for ‘the one’, especially to show up at club. Its realy not gender specific, some guys do exactly the same thing.

      Women get worse off as they age. Men do not.

      I wonder how old you are, I guess pretty young as not many people past the age of 21 would still believe that good looking guys get good looking women and less attractive folk end up with each other. I dont want to slap your wrists because maybe that has just been your life experience so far. Mine though has lead me to believe that models can and do end up marrying overweight farmers who only see the bathtub once a week.

      I’m 22. Bad looking guys with game get hot girls. Good looking girls with no game *can* go for ugly girls. But a guy with game will never go for the ugly girl first. Looks are 75% of the battle for you ladies.

      Your last paragraph just has me shaking my head in disbelief

      Because I speak the truth?

  • I am healed says:

    I find your view on things bizarre so will just help you to maybe see things from another angle as it concerns me for somebody to be so closed minded.

    I am from the UK, it is well known by the majority of people with average and above average intelligence that clubs are not places to start relationships but where desperate people do go out to get laid. I’m sure there are some people who started relationships in clubs but I do not know any of them, however I know many people who do go to them with the sole intention of finding somebody to do dirty dancing with and then get laid.

    Age? why does this even get a mention. Not every guy is repulsed out by older women. I don’t know many but I do know of at least 3 couples of women in their 40’s & 50’s dating guys in their 20’s, they have all been together for over 2 years. None of the women are rich and none of them are thin and toned like the women above but what two of the guys I have spoken to their reason for ‘preferring’ them to the younger women is that they are comfortable with their bodies and themselves, they don’t stand in clubs posing like alot of the younger women do, they have fun and do not mind embarrassing themselves. They are also less demanding in a high maintenance in relationship. Of course this is not a general statement as can only be based on the girls those guys had experience with in the past.

    For the past 10 years(since I was 16) I have been attracted to older guys, sometimes 10 years older but a few occasions 30 years older than me. I dont go for ‘older guys’ in general, just a few of them have stood out. Was I grossed out by them due to their age, not at all. Have I been grossed out by another person before, yes, people of all ages and genders. I think its wrong to suggest that ALL younger guys are grossed out by older women gyrating their groins. Some older guys are grossed out by older women. Everyone has their own preference.

    ‘Yet im sure she wonders why she’s single and hasn’t found anyone’ I guess that could be one of MANY possible reasons. But again, I dont know any women who would go to a club, dance sexually and expect it to result in a relationship, maybe sex.

    Not all women are constantly in a disney daydream looking for ‘the one’, especially to show up at club. Its realy not gender specific, some guys do exactly the same thing.

    I wonder how old you are, I guess pretty young as not many people past the age of 21 would still believe that good looking guys get good looking women and less attractive folk end up with each other. I dont want to slap your wrists because maybe that has just been your life experience so far. Mine though has lead me to believe that models can and do end up marrying overweight farmers who only see the bathtub once a week.

    Your last paragraph just has me shaking my head in disbelief

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